"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I realized I can get digits without any problem. That part was easy. I even had girls straight up ask me what mine where. I just hesitate making anything happen after wards. that is my confession. give me advice or make a confession of your own
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women haze

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I miss my ex gf...that's my confession. I know that is not the way of a Don Juan to actually miss a B!@#$ that did nothing but hurt you, but I can't help it. It's hard to move on and I don't know how you guys do it.
 

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women haze said:
I miss my ex gf...that's my confession. I know that is not the way of a Don Juan to actually miss a B!@#$ that did nothing but hurt you, but I can't help it. It's hard to move on and I don't know how you guys do it.
It's like taking bitter medicine. Feels awful doing it but its a must.
 

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women haze said:
I miss my ex gf...that's my confession. I know that is not the way of a Don Juan to actually miss a B!@#$ that did nothing but hurt you, but I can't help it. It's hard to move on and I don't know how you guys do it.
Everyone's been there dude. They say to spin plates and I agree. I'm one of the few wait-until-marriage guys around here, and I still agree.

Time and new relationships are the only things that matter much or help. But they really will. I've had two girls I thought I'd never replace, and my 3rd one is far better than either. You know what? If I left her, I could do it MUCH easier than before.

It's part of maturity I think. Learning to take care of yourself and make wiser relationship decisions.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I would love to have another try on the virgin who flaked on me last month. He was so good looking, and a really nice guy, in part to help him, but mostly cause i feel rejected :(
 

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rejection is sweet compared to not doing anything.
 
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