"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Confession of a Teen Man.

jebach123

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I am a man. A real man. At least for my age.;) I am 17 and I am society "outcast". I am all about self improvement, I work out, I watch what I eat, I plan my future, I am the best student in my school(didn't study in my life i just get it somehow not a nerd), I dance, I have an ear for music, I am a great soccer player, and when it comes to style I just look ****ing awesome! and I do not like to show off. HAHA but really I don't; just to give you a picture of me. When it comes to pickup before coming to this site I was "natural" but I learned a lot here too. There are groups of girls that are head over heels for me but what happened many times is girls -2 +2 of my age are choosing ******* guys who smoke don't know what to do with life, talk like they miss half of their tongue, and dress like walmart version of kanye west with their "gang". They choose that bull**** over me, I do not care about it,those girls are not even worth me, but damn some of them are made for a condom and a bed and it pisses me off sometimes. I wanna ask for your opinion on this, should I even care, should I go for older girls, should I just do me and focus on my track?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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I am a man. A real man. At least for my age.;) I am 17 and I am society "outcast". I am all about self improvement, I work out, I watch what I eat, I plan my future, I am the best student in my school(didn't study in my life i just get it somehow not a nerd), I dance, I have an ear for music, I am a great soccer player, and when it comes to style I just look ****ing awesome! and I do not like to show off. HAHA but really I don't; just to give you a picture of me. When it comes to pickup before coming to this site I was "natural" but I learned a lot here too. There are groups of girls that are head over heels for me but what happened many times is girls -2 +2 of my age are choosing ******* guys who smoke don't know what to do with life, talk like they miss half of their tongue, and dress like walmart version of kanye west with their "gang". They choose that bull**** over me, I do not care about it,those girls are not even worth me, but damn some of them are made for a condom and a bed and it pisses me off sometimes. I wanna ask for your opinion on this, should I even care, should I go for older girls, should I just do me and focus on my track?
Get the older ones if that's whats going to work for you. Don't dumb yourself down to fit in with those hoez, perhaps they "ain't $hit", so why would you try to relate?
 

SmooveMooves

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Continue to improve. Tougher to pickup older chicks at your age because your competing with people more established than you. Men with their own homes, careers, etc. It can still be done.
 
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