"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Confession of a Teen Man.

jebach123

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I am a man. A real man. At least for my age.;) I am 17 and I am society "outcast". I am all about self improvement, I work out, I watch what I eat, I plan my future, I am the best student in my school(didn't study in my life i just get it somehow not a nerd), I dance, I have an ear for music, I am a great soccer player, and when it comes to style I just look ****ing awesome! and I do not like to show off. HAHA but really I don't; just to give you a picture of me. When it comes to pickup before coming to this site I was "natural" but I learned a lot here too. There are groups of girls that are head over heels for me but what happened many times is girls -2 +2 of my age are choosing ******* guys who smoke don't know what to do with life, talk like they miss half of their tongue, and dress like walmart version of kanye west with their "gang". They choose that bull**** over me, I do not care about it,those girls are not even worth me, but damn some of them are made for a condom and a bed and it pisses me off sometimes. I wanna ask for your opinion on this, should I even care, should I go for older girls, should I just do me and focus on my track?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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I am a man. A real man. At least for my age.;) I am 17 and I am society "outcast". I am all about self improvement, I work out, I watch what I eat, I plan my future, I am the best student in my school(didn't study in my life i just get it somehow not a nerd), I dance, I have an ear for music, I am a great soccer player, and when it comes to style I just look ****ing awesome! and I do not like to show off. HAHA but really I don't; just to give you a picture of me. When it comes to pickup before coming to this site I was "natural" but I learned a lot here too. There are groups of girls that are head over heels for me but what happened many times is girls -2 +2 of my age are choosing ******* guys who smoke don't know what to do with life, talk like they miss half of their tongue, and dress like walmart version of kanye west with their "gang". They choose that bull**** over me, I do not care about it,those girls are not even worth me, but damn some of them are made for a condom and a bed and it pisses me off sometimes. I wanna ask for your opinion on this, should I even care, should I go for older girls, should I just do me and focus on my track?
Get the older ones if that's whats going to work for you. Don't dumb yourself down to fit in with those hoez, perhaps they "ain't $hit", so why would you try to relate?
 

SmooveMooves

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Continue to improve. Tougher to pickup older chicks at your age because your competing with people more established than you. Men with their own homes, careers, etc. It can still be done.
 
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