"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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confessing about age

gh15

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Hey DJs,

Managed to set up a date for this weekend with a chick I hooked up with at a club couple weeks ago. Seeing how she is responsive even after the club high is dead, I'm sensing her IL is definitely there.

Problem is, she doesn't know I'm still in school (21, finishing up last semester of college). We never talked about age, but when she asked what I do, I said I work in XXX industry (which I will be after grad haha, not lying about having a job lined up). She reciprocated and I know what she does. She's at most 2 years older than me for sure.

Was going to see her soon after I met her, but plans didn't work out because she was traveling for business & I had my glorious spring break :) When she asked if I had been busy with work I just followed along with it. I'm obviously going to break the news to her that I'm actually still in school, bc I think it's retarded to keep going on with a fake identity lol. Better to be upfront about it.

Any reactions I should expect / how I should carry myself when I break the news? Not sure what we'll be doing yet, but I just told her that we'll "hang out over a couple of drinks."

Thanks DJs!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nroug7

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gh15 said:
Hey DJs,

Managed to set up a date for this weekend with a chick I hooked up with at a club couple weeks ago. Seeing how she is responsive even after the club high is dead, I'm sensing her IL is definitely there.

Problem is, she doesn't know I'm still in school (21, finishing up last semester of college). We never talked about age, but when she asked what I do, I said I work in XXX industry (which I will be after grad haha, not lying about having a job lined up). She reciprocated and I know what she does. She's at most 2 years older than me for sure.

Was going to see her soon after I met her, but plans didn't work out because she was traveling for business & I had my glorious spring break :) When she asked if I had been busy with work I just followed along with it. I'm obviously going to break the news to her that I'm actually still in school, bc I think it's retarded to keep going on with a fake identity lol. Better to be upfront about it.

Any reactions I should expect / how I should carry myself when I break the news? Not sure what we'll be doing yet, but I just told her that we'll "hang out over a couple of drinks."

Thanks DJs!
Should of been upfront.
Do whatever you feel is right.
Just carry yourself smoothly.
 

Vidrio

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I wouldn't even bother correcting her. That could eff everything up because she may think you're a liar. I mean it's not like you're going to marry this chick so does it really make a difference? Last month I told a girl I met at a frat party a fake name and when I admitted it was fake later, she lost interest. Just a heads up.
 

gh15

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Lol I guess I should have never lied? Just was going with the flow with some alcohol in my head I guess :)
 
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