"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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confessing about age

gh15

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Hey DJs,

Managed to set up a date for this weekend with a chick I hooked up with at a club couple weeks ago. Seeing how she is responsive even after the club high is dead, I'm sensing her IL is definitely there.

Problem is, she doesn't know I'm still in school (21, finishing up last semester of college). We never talked about age, but when she asked what I do, I said I work in XXX industry (which I will be after grad haha, not lying about having a job lined up). She reciprocated and I know what she does. She's at most 2 years older than me for sure.

Was going to see her soon after I met her, but plans didn't work out because she was traveling for business & I had my glorious spring break :) When she asked if I had been busy with work I just followed along with it. I'm obviously going to break the news to her that I'm actually still in school, bc I think it's retarded to keep going on with a fake identity lol. Better to be upfront about it.

Any reactions I should expect / how I should carry myself when I break the news? Not sure what we'll be doing yet, but I just told her that we'll "hang out over a couple of drinks."

Thanks DJs!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nroug7

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gh15 said:
Hey DJs,

Managed to set up a date for this weekend with a chick I hooked up with at a club couple weeks ago. Seeing how she is responsive even after the club high is dead, I'm sensing her IL is definitely there.

Problem is, she doesn't know I'm still in school (21, finishing up last semester of college). We never talked about age, but when she asked what I do, I said I work in XXX industry (which I will be after grad haha, not lying about having a job lined up). She reciprocated and I know what she does. She's at most 2 years older than me for sure.

Was going to see her soon after I met her, but plans didn't work out because she was traveling for business & I had my glorious spring break :) When she asked if I had been busy with work I just followed along with it. I'm obviously going to break the news to her that I'm actually still in school, bc I think it's retarded to keep going on with a fake identity lol. Better to be upfront about it.

Any reactions I should expect / how I should carry myself when I break the news? Not sure what we'll be doing yet, but I just told her that we'll "hang out over a couple of drinks."

Thanks DJs!
Should of been upfront.
Do whatever you feel is right.
Just carry yourself smoothly.
 

Vidrio

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I wouldn't even bother correcting her. That could eff everything up because she may think you're a liar. I mean it's not like you're going to marry this chick so does it really make a difference? Last month I told a girl I met at a frat party a fake name and when I admitted it was fake later, she lost interest. Just a heads up.
 

gh15

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Lol I guess I should have never lied? Just was going with the flow with some alcohol in my head I guess :)
 
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