"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alonzo

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This girl I met will only give me a bj with a condom on. Ive tried
tros sensitive but I dint like it. any suggestions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PEACEDJ

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What kind of girl would want a condom on when giving you a BJ? If I were you, I'd rather just not get BJ from her.
 

Oxide

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hold up....
BJ or no BJ?

what would i choose....:rolleyes:

try lifestyle's sens.
 

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Hey, kids.

Did you know that you can get herpes from a chick giving you a BJ with no protection?

Suppose she's got cooties on her mouth/in her mouth/around her mouth? You should feel lucky you have girls that smart giving you BJs, Alonzo...most of the girls I know that are the BJ type are dumb sorority broads.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Iceberg
Hey, kids.

Did you know that you can get herpes from a chick giving you a BJ with no protection?

Suppose she's got cooties on her mouth/in her mouth/around her mouth? You should feel lucky you have girls that smart giving you BJs, Alonzo...most of the girls I know that are the BJ type are dumb sorority broads.
Sounds reasonable to me.
 

myfriendblu

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Originally posted by alonzo
This girl I met will only give me a bj with a condom on. Ive tried
tros sensitive but I dint like it. any suggestions.
OHHHHHH NOOOO!!!!!!!!

I would bet the reason she is making you wear one is that SHE has something and doesn't wanna tell you....Just an assumption....
 

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Call me reckless, but I would not wear a condem in order for a woman to give me a *******. I would prefer no condem and a handjob.
 

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If a chick has herpes, you'll get it just by kissing her. Are we supposed to wear mouth condoms now? If you kiss without protection, might as well get the BJ too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OHHHHHH NOOOO!!!!!!!!

I would bet the reason she is making you wear one is that SHE has something and doesn't wanna tell you....Just an assumption....
I think someone said that already...

Call me reckless, but I would not wear a condem in order for a woman to give me a *******. I would prefer no condem and a handjob.
You don't have to type word 'condom' wrong....
If a chick has herpes, you'll get it just by kissing her. Are we supposed to wear mouth condoms now? If you kiss without protection, might as well get the BJ too.
Yeah, but I wouldn't like it on my d!ck...
And mouth and genital herpes are different. OK, it can transfer itself, but she doesn't automatically have it in her mouth if she has it in her *****.
 
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