"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rainman4707

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Sex is so much better without a condom..feels a lot better for me & HB.

I would like to invite HB8.5 over (I haven't seen her for a couple of month) & I know it would be more enjoyable for both of us if I didn't wear a condom, but I suppose wearing protection is the safe way. Meh.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good call. I'll have a look at some different, more pleasurable condoms. I think I'd be to busy focusing on fu*king her so probs wouldn't notice if a meteor hit until it was to late =)
 

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I don't fvck if I have to wear one. And by have to wear one, I also mean I just know iv should because she's probably got something. I know you can't amnesia always know, but that's a risk I take. Ironically the only one I used a condom with was the one who had my child. And the one who told me she had herpes ( took medication for it) I didn't use one and fvcked her 100 times at least and never got it.

You all should wear one. But I don't. Just don't like them. Once day it might catch b up to me but fvck it
 

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What you want is Crown Skinless condoms. It's what the porn stars wear. The pink ones. It's the best thin condom I've ever used.

That said, yeah, condoms suck. Luckily most white chicks are fearless about bareback sex. I do it all the time and pull out. They're all on the pill anyway.

That said part deux: I had an STI scare that turned out to be nothing, so I'm back to using Crown condoms until I'm only seeing just one girl consistently. As long as I am spinning multiple plates and cross-contaminating I'll keep a dome on. At least I can finish inside her that way.

In conclusion OP, use condoms because you'll avoid STD/pregnancy scares, can bust inside them, and it's definitely safer if you're having sex with multiple partners. My doctor gave me a stern lecture at my annual when he asked if I'm having sex with anyone, I said these 3 girls, he asked if any of them were without protection and I said all of them. No more for this guy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Anal with a condom is even worse, which explains to me a lot of why so many gay men got HIV.

I could see a point in the future where condoms become obsolete. They'll make a magic lube out of stem cells that eat STDs.
 

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I had a vasectomy after my third child so no pregnancy worries for me. I rawdogged like 7 different chicks this year. I know it's stupid but I just fcking HATE rubbers, I generally can't cvm using one. I need to get tested.....
 

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MOTU said:
I had a vasectomy after my third child so no pregnancy worries for me. I rawdogged like 7 different chicks this year. I know it's stupid but I just fcking HATE rubbers, I generally can't cvm using one. I need to get tested.....
im right there with you, i have to almost meditate on it to cvm with a rubber on.

i've also done way too much rawdogging for my own good.

Get tested for sure, the peace of mind is so worth it.

We should be using rubbers, but damnit they suck. I'm currently dating one girl exclusively and so happy to be banging raw with no worries.
 

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Thanks for feedback :) so according to replys most of you don't bother with condoms.
That wasn't the response I expected. I expected to be told that I should wear condoms.
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Thanks for feedback :) so according to replys most of you don't bother with condoms.
That wasn't the response I expected. I expected to be told that I should wear condoms.
I think we are telling you to wear condoms...but we know that you probably wont. Its foolish, and dangerous, but very hard in the moment when a girl is willing to raw dogg.
The worst thing I have done this year was rawdogg a SNL girl (21 y.o. redhead) who begged me to cvm in her.....and I did. No idea what the birth control situation was or anything. I facebook stalked her, and she doesnt look preggo, so that made me feel better. So dumb.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I always wrap it up, **** it. You never know who has what STD and WONT TELL YOU. I had a girl I was railing raw who had herpies (NOT genital) but never told me. Luckily, I am not an idiot and can spot when an oral outbreak bursts. It looks pretty gross, especially when they ooze (yummy).

But ya, long story short, use condoms, I never talked to that ****ing wh0-reee again. ****KK EM
 

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JohnChops said:
I always wrap it up, **** it. You never know who has what STD and WONT TELL YOU. I had a girl I was railing raw who had herpies (NOT genital) but never told me. Luckily, I am not an idiot and can spot when an oral outbreak bursts. It looks pretty gross, especially when they ooze (yummy).

But ya, long story short, use condoms, I never talked to that ****ing wh0-reee again. ****KK EM
As someone who gets cold sores once every year or two, this offends me :p Definitely stay away from a girl's mouth during an outbreak, she should disclose that sht, but I've been getting them since I was younger so I assure you I'm not a wh0re.

Well, I am, but you know what I mean.
 

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As someone who gets cold sores once every year or two, this offends me :p Definitely stay away from a girl's mouth during an outbreak, she should disclose that sht, but I've been getting them since I was younger so I assure you I'm not a wh0re.

Well, I am, but you know what I mean.
Lmfao.
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Thanks for feedback :) so according to replys most of you don't bother with condoms.
That wasn't the response I expected. I expected to be told that I should wear condoms.
You should use condoms, unless you won't to risk child support for the rest of your life. Take the condom off, *** in her mouth. No worries tomorrow.

The Japanese condoms are supposed to be the best, although I do wonder how big they are. Sagami, they have imports. Durex and Trojan are terrible.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...reated-Japan-just-sixth-width-human-hair.html
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Raw dogging is the best until you get a girl pregnant.

If she isn't on the pill, then use the pull out method. Nothing like a little Russian roulette to make life interesting.
 

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I've been banging this chick recently, always with a condom and for the life of me I cannot BUST!!!

It's getting to the point where she's feeling insulted. I had to tell her straight up I can't *** with a condom on, I was married so I got spoiled by the years of rawdogging! lol
 

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I've been using the pull out method. She told me two weeks ago she thinks she might be pregnant :crackup: I don't think she is.

I was making out with her the other night & she seemed a little off. I said "whats up"

HB7.5 :- I need to tell you something.

Rainman :- (thinking hmm shes probs been sleeping with another guy) what? Come on what?

HB7.5 :- I want a baby

Rainman :- :crackup:
 

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I strongly advocate using rubbers. Yes, they suck and I struggle to stay hard with one on but I'd prefer to still wear one than risk getting an STD.
I'll admit that I've rawdogged probably 10% of the slvts I've fvcked: got chlamydia twice (from rawdogging consecutive ONS) and a herpes scare where my doctor told me I definitely had it.
I got a second opinion and the other doc confirmed it was just redness from some rough sex.
The second time I got the clap was within two weeks of recovering from the first dose after a course of antibiotics.
But the herpes scare was the wake-up call I needed (not to mention my brother caught it from anally rawdogging some skank in a gang bang).
And even when using a condom I still pull out and cvm on her tyts, butt, or wherever because one time I busted inside a chick and when I withdrew, the condom had broken.
Hooray for the morning after pill!
But seriously, if you have any doubts, just wear one for peace of mind.
And remember, you can still contract herpes when using a condom.
 
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