"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cash

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The last time i used one was a few years ago and all seemed well, but the other night I attempted with little sucess. Holding the tip (to avoid trapped air) while rolling it down was slippery and painful, making it near impossble to even get pass the head.

Once this was finally achieved all seemed awkward and tight. Getting this on without trapped air is some feat.

It could be that i'm too big (7 1/2" - 8") but i'm sure this is still within range.

Anybody experience the same thing?

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's not that you're too big. You can roll a standard latex condom over your hand and up your forearm; try it.
 

DarthJuan

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Cash said:
The last time i used one was a few years ago and all seemed well, but the other night I attempted with little sucess. Holding the tip (to avoid trapped air) while rolling it down was slippery and painful, making it near impossble to even get pass the head.

Once this was finally achieved all seemed awkward and tight. Getting this on without trapped air is some feat.

It could be that i'm too big (7 1/2" - 8") but i'm sure this is still within range.

Anybody experience the same thing?

Thanks
You gotta try a couple different brands, some are really long and narrow, others accomodate a larger girth, etc...

Magnums fit/feel different than Lifestyle XL's, etc.
 

mrRuckus

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Cash said:
The last time i used one was a few years ago and all seemed well, but the other night I attempted with little sucess. Holding the tip (to avoid trapped air) while rolling it down was slippery and painful, making it near impossble to even get pass the head.

Once this was finally achieved all seemed awkward and tight. Getting this on without trapped air is some feat.

It could be that i'm too big (7 1/2" - 8") but i'm sure this is still within range.

You could be too big. I'm having this same problem. I tend to have sex only in LTR situations where the girl is on the pill so it's been bare back for a long time but lately i haven't been in a LTR so i'm back to the condoms.

Wow condoms suck.

The damn thing digs into me (the end ring part) and is generally too tight and once any sort of motion gets involved (sex!) it just gets worse and becomes painful and bye bye erection.

I remember using magnums before early in college like 7 years ago but i'm going to try to go back to them. Trojan regulars just aren't working. But if i remember right the magnums were really really big and you end up with the opposite problem of it bunching up. Is there a medium? :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You guys gotta use lub. Such as spit on the head before putting them on, or use it out of the baggie, or buy lubricated condoms. Lub outside is for the girl, lub inside is for you. It feels better that way too.
 

mrRuckus

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djSlvt said:
You guys gotta use lub. Such as spit on the head before putting them on, or use it out of the baggie, or buy lubricated condoms. Lub outside is for the girl, lub inside is for you. It feels better that way too.
Lube is awesome but doesn't solve tightness issues.
 
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