"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Condoms producing a major issue

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I have a major problem when it comes to using condoms.

Really, it's that I CAN'T STAND USING THEM.

First off, they always seem to decrease the erection. I'll be rock hard, slap on a condom, and watch as my d*ck goes down (this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable. Another is that I can't seem to feel anything when I'm wearing it. I can barely differentiate whether my d*ck is inside her or rubbing against her thigh!

Finally, and this was a recent problem, the condom created so much friction between it and her skin that going in and out of her took lots of pressure. It would "stick" to the skin.

I know that condoms need to be used, but they're so damn uncomfortable that I'm practically inept at f*cking a girl with one on! Without it, it's great, and so I'll be often tempted (and sometimes do) just f*ck her without it!

What makes this issue worse is that I try to get the thinnest condoms available. I buy the durex ultrathin ones, which claim you won't even feel it's on (sure), and I still have these issues.

Any suggestions? Anyone have similair problems and found ways around it?

I need to get this fixed up quick before I get a chick pregnant or acquire an STD.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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(this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).
I keep mine in a fancy little bag that hangs from the bedpost. They're always within easy reach.

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable.
Try a few different brands. I notice that some are worse than others for comfort. Ramses were designed for guys with pencil d1cks, and are the worst. I also found problems with Sheik. I've had my best luck with Trojans.

As for the "feeling", there's not much I can suggest there. You might want to try different positions. Things go the best for me when she's on top.
 
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