"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Condoms producing a major issue

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I have a major problem when it comes to using condoms.

Really, it's that I CAN'T STAND USING THEM.

First off, they always seem to decrease the erection. I'll be rock hard, slap on a condom, and watch as my d*ck goes down (this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable. Another is that I can't seem to feel anything when I'm wearing it. I can barely differentiate whether my d*ck is inside her or rubbing against her thigh!

Finally, and this was a recent problem, the condom created so much friction between it and her skin that going in and out of her took lots of pressure. It would "stick" to the skin.

I know that condoms need to be used, but they're so damn uncomfortable that I'm practically inept at f*cking a girl with one on! Without it, it's great, and so I'll be often tempted (and sometimes do) just f*ck her without it!

What makes this issue worse is that I try to get the thinnest condoms available. I buy the durex ultrathin ones, which claim you won't even feel it's on (sure), and I still have these issues.

Any suggestions? Anyone have similair problems and found ways around it?

I need to get this fixed up quick before I get a chick pregnant or acquire an STD.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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(this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).
I keep mine in a fancy little bag that hangs from the bedpost. They're always within easy reach.

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable.
Try a few different brands. I notice that some are worse than others for comfort. Ramses were designed for guys with pencil d1cks, and are the worst. I also found problems with Sheik. I've had my best luck with Trojans.

As for the "feeling", there's not much I can suggest there. You might want to try different positions. Things go the best for me when she's on top.
 
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