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Condoms producing a major issue

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I have a major problem when it comes to using condoms.

Really, it's that I CAN'T STAND USING THEM.

First off, they always seem to decrease the erection. I'll be rock hard, slap on a condom, and watch as my d*ck goes down (this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable. Another is that I can't seem to feel anything when I'm wearing it. I can barely differentiate whether my d*ck is inside her or rubbing against her thigh!

Finally, and this was a recent problem, the condom created so much friction between it and her skin that going in and out of her took lots of pressure. It would "stick" to the skin.

I know that condoms need to be used, but they're so damn uncomfortable that I'm practically inept at f*cking a girl with one on! Without it, it's great, and so I'll be often tempted (and sometimes do) just f*ck her without it!

What makes this issue worse is that I try to get the thinnest condoms available. I buy the durex ultrathin ones, which claim you won't even feel it's on (sure), and I still have these issues.

Any suggestions? Anyone have similair problems and found ways around it?

I need to get this fixed up quick before I get a chick pregnant or acquire an STD.
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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(this is assuming my d*ck hasn't already gone down during the 5 minute frantic search for one!).
I keep mine in a fancy little bag that hangs from the bedpost. They're always within easy reach.

Part of this stems from the fact that they're so damn uncomfortable.
Try a few different brands. I notice that some are worse than others for comfort. Ramses were designed for guys with pencil d1cks, and are the worst. I also found problems with Sheik. I've had my best luck with Trojans.

As for the "feeling", there's not much I can suggest there. You might want to try different positions. Things go the best for me when she's on top.
 
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