"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Condoms and erections

Paradiddle

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Hey guys,

I wanted to know if it's normal to lose erection after putting on a condom? I'm banging a chick in a week but I know I will lose my erection when I put on a condom. I bought a couple of condoms and tried putting them on as a test after watching porn and the erection was intact but when I put it on before doing it with a chick, I lose erection. I know this from the past experiences with my girlfriends. One of them was really scared of pregnancy and wanted me to put the rubber on but I could not maintain the erection as soon as I put it on. Sometimes, I feel it's psychological but I need some advice.

Thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AttackFormation

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  1. Putting on a condom increases the odds of losing an erection for me too.
  2. If I use a condom, I don't feel anything anyway. Might as well not have sex.
 

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If it's a new girl I never banged before it's not much of an issue. But after a couple times with her I can longer maintain an erection with a condom. Or I will lose it while putting it on, then I'm left with a limp noodle and the girl asking me whats wrong. Sometimes you lose an erection cause your mind is playing tricks on you.

Porn is messing up your head. Lay off it till after you hook up with said girl. It's also normal to lose sensitivity down there as you get older. Being the age I am I feel almost nothing down there when wearing a condom.
 

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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
 
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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
So how do I deal with it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So how do I deal with it?
Not the safest route when it comes to stds and pregnancy prevention, but what if you fvck the girl until you've worked yourself up and then put it on?
 

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
It's a simple tactic to fvck a girl for a while and then to stop and put a condom on before you cvm. I did it with my wife a bunch to avoid a second pregnancy.
 

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
Actually, that works. If I go in and out for a while and put the rubber on, I don't lose my erection but that's risky when STD's are concerned. I should start meditating. Lol.
 
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