"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Paradiddle

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Hey guys,

I wanted to know if it's normal to lose erection after putting on a condom? I'm banging a chick in a week but I know I will lose my erection when I put on a condom. I bought a couple of condoms and tried putting them on as a test after watching porn and the erection was intact but when I put it on before doing it with a chick, I lose erection. I know this from the past experiences with my girlfriends. One of them was really scared of pregnancy and wanted me to put the rubber on but I could not maintain the erection as soon as I put it on. Sometimes, I feel it's psychological but I need some advice.

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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  1. Putting on a condom increases the odds of losing an erection for me too.
  2. If I use a condom, I don't feel anything anyway. Might as well not have sex.
 

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If it's a new girl I never banged before it's not much of an issue. But after a couple times with her I can longer maintain an erection with a condom. Or I will lose it while putting it on, then I'm left with a limp noodle and the girl asking me whats wrong. Sometimes you lose an erection cause your mind is playing tricks on you.

Porn is messing up your head. Lay off it till after you hook up with said girl. It's also normal to lose sensitivity down there as you get older. Being the age I am I feel almost nothing down there when wearing a condom.
 

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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
 
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Erections are lost because a condom is not a normal biological physical mating procedure. i.e., it’s not what your body says is normal. It’s all psychological.
So how do I deal with it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So how do I deal with it?
Not the safest route when it comes to stds and pregnancy prevention, but what if you fvck the girl until you've worked yourself up and then put it on?
 

Fzatf

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
It's a simple tactic to fvck a girl for a while and then to stop and put a condom on before you cvm. I did it with my wife a bunch to avoid a second pregnancy.
 

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Lmfao did you really just ask that?

I don’t mean to be a dlck but are you a virgin?
Actually, that works. If I go in and out for a while and put the rubber on, I don't lose my erection but that's risky when STD's are concerned. I should start meditating. Lol.
 
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