You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Pills have about a 5% chance of failing even with proper usage...Originally posted by Hot Ice
Well, I'd imagine if you finger her first, then put your condom on and your fingers touch your ****, you can get a STD easily.
Same thing with semen. Only one little swimmer is needed.
A 33 years old female friend of mine is pregnant and she said she was using pills when she got pregnant. As when she got her first child. That sounds like she has just forgotten to take one, but she says she's sure she hasn't... well, dunno about it.
I guess you just have to know you can be never 100% sure about sex and you take a risk every time you do it. The thing is to minimize risks. And being responsible.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Or crabs... or actually a few other things.Originally posted by penkitten
condoms dont pretect against everything like herpes for one..
Very true!Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You're taking a risk every time, condom or not.
it's not REALLY dangerous...Originally posted by Jay-X
guys, u scare me... my girlfriend is too young to take the pill (she's 16) and u r sayin' that just usin' the condom is really dangerous... so tell me what should i do...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Wear a condomn and when you are about to blow, pull out. Reduces your chances quite a bit.Originally posted by Jay-X
here in italy u can't take pills if u r younger than 18 and u don't have a doctor's recepee (in order to have this, u have to tell your parents... no way, of course...)... suggest me something that i should do... should i just wear a condom and risk pregnancy? (i don't care about STDs, 'cuz i'm her first partner) what do you other underage guys do to prevent pregnancy, besides using a condom?
i thought about jerkin' off 2 times before havin sex with her (in order to reduce the amount of semen), wearin' a condom and doin' it just immediately after she has her things... should i be safe enough this way?
Well, dunno about that. While having sex, the girl should be always wetOriginally posted by Jay-X
that's a good idea, thank u jimbo. it's safer if she's really wet, because u can slide ur d1ck in a easier way, right?