"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Concern about multiple women

aussiegoat55

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So it's been two weeks into college and already I am dating two real cute women, haha, never would have expected this success when I was younger and not a DJ. Anyway, my concern about seeing multiple women is that if I'm out on a date with girl A, I might run into girl B. If this situation were to happen, what would be the best way to handle it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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eko

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Tell them straight up that they aren't the only ones in the picture and you're dating and choosing the best one. honesty is the best policy with this one... Just don't let the other girls know who the other ones are. Sucks getting caught.
 

Alphamale1821

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Honestly i woudln't worry about it, just simply tell them i am nto exclsuive with anyone so i can date who ever i want. Many "players or Don's lie but i;m just honest with most chicks. I generally tell girls that ask me "what are we, or something of the like" I simply say we are casually dating, some chicks don't like it, other chicks want to fight harder because they know other women are having your attention.

The bottom line is don't worry about it. We are men and in the end we are looking for out best mate. Date as many chicks as you want, and when you want a gf then start the elimination process from your panel of women.
 

Ace of Flames

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They have no right to be upset if they find out you're dating multiple chicks. At least, if you framed things right.

You have to make it known that you aren't tied down to any of these girls. There is no exclusivity until the gf/bf thing becomes official. If one of the girls wants you all to herself, tell her it'll only happen once you enter a relationship. Until then, you're just as free to date people as they are.
 
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