"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Concern about multiple women

aussiegoat55

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So it's been two weeks into college and already I am dating two real cute women, haha, never would have expected this success when I was younger and not a DJ. Anyway, my concern about seeing multiple women is that if I'm out on a date with girl A, I might run into girl B. If this situation were to happen, what would be the best way to handle it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eko

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Tell them straight up that they aren't the only ones in the picture and you're dating and choosing the best one. honesty is the best policy with this one... Just don't let the other girls know who the other ones are. Sucks getting caught.
 

Alphamale1821

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Honestly i woudln't worry about it, just simply tell them i am nto exclsuive with anyone so i can date who ever i want. Many "players or Don's lie but i;m just honest with most chicks. I generally tell girls that ask me "what are we, or something of the like" I simply say we are casually dating, some chicks don't like it, other chicks want to fight harder because they know other women are having your attention.

The bottom line is don't worry about it. We are men and in the end we are looking for out best mate. Date as many chicks as you want, and when you want a gf then start the elimination process from your panel of women.
 

Ace of Flames

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They have no right to be upset if they find out you're dating multiple chicks. At least, if you framed things right.

You have to make it known that you aren't tied down to any of these girls. There is no exclusivity until the gf/bf thing becomes official. If one of the girls wants you all to herself, tell her it'll only happen once you enter a relationship. Until then, you're just as free to date people as they are.
 
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