"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PhunGar

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I don't' know but recently ive seem to have difficulty concentrating in general. Like i dont' seem to remember having this problem last year.
It might seem far fetched but may it have to do with going to gym and bulking. Because honestly that's the only thing ive done differently these last 4 months than other months.
If not anyone have any tips to improve concentration.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mikeyb

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What's your diet like? Four years ago my diet suddenly changed to fried stuff and cheese and I had no energy and couldn't focus for a long time on anything. As soon as I went back to a more balanced diet those problems went away.

Try taking a multivitamin supplement every day for a week and see if that changes anything. If so then the problem is probably your diet. Also make sure you're drinking enough water outside meals.
 

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Check your hydration for sure. We all need to be drinking 60 ounces of water per day, which is about 8 cups. The more muscle you have, the greater demand for water within your body. The brain is also like a muscle, it does not perform well in a dehydrated state. Concentration problems and headaches are common ailments associated with general dehydration.
 

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PhunGar said:
I don't' know but recently ive seem to have difficulty concentrating in general. Like i dont' seem to remember having this problem last year.
It might seem far fetched but may it have to do with going to gym and bulking. Because honestly that's the only thing ive done differently these last 4 months than other months.
If not anyone have any tips to improve concentration.
200 mg of caffeine or a little bit of yohimbine (emphasis on just a "little" bit, especially at first LOL)

Sleeping at least 6-8 hours every night?

Melatonin/ zinc/magnesium deficient?

Eating your protein every 2-3 hours or 4 hours at the latest?

Staying hydrated ?

Are you gay?

Taking in some omega 3s/good fats everyday?
 

PhunGar

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thanks
its probally the water thing because my diet is better i feel more active just can't concentrate. I tend go without water for a long period of time so i'll try that.
And yes i do take a multivitamin i don't know if i really feel a difference or that im so used to it i don't know what it feels like to not be on it for a extended period of time.

also whats yohimbine????? I do get about 6-8 hours depending on the day sometimes its 6 sometimes its 8-9
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Testestorone definitely has an adverse effect on concentration levels.

Its one of the few negative impacts. The difference your seeing is the extra testostorone from bulking.

Exercise, 30 minute cardio daily or twice daily works to keep your mind in good check. I only do it during stress time in my academic life, but i can for sure a feel a difference in my concentration levels. Prolonged cardio has negative effects on testostorone, so imo its only good for certain occasions.

Sleep is the other big thing. Enough of it regularly.

Apart from that multivitamins and water, but thats general advice.
 
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