"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Computer Privacy

Maeisgood

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What is a good technology forum to go to that specializes in protecting one's identity? I can't think of a good example of such a forum, but an example of protecting my identity on-line is using the search engine ixquick.com instead of google. Computers are not my forte but I think its an important enough area of my life to work on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alle_Gory

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1. Never give out identifiable information in a public forum. Where you live, what your house looks like, the places you visit locally, what you look like. Anything that has an address or a unique name. For example, "I shopped at Best Buy yesterday" is not easy to identify because there's so many and it's such a vast company. "I like to go to Mcgillicuddy's Bar" well that's much easier to narrow down. Even sharing a picture can be a no-no since newer cameras sometimes have GPS data built into the EXIF image tags and tell you exactly where you took the picture within a few feet. You need to know what you're giving out before you do so. EXIF data can be stripped.

2. Use separate e-mail addresses with separate and hard to remember passwords. I have several e-mail addresses for this exact reason because I don't know who to trust and who will spam me. Google and Hotmail make this easy. Hotmail has aliases which is basically another e-mail address in your e-mail address. And for the love of god please don't use the same password on every website with every account.

3. Be aware of tracking cookies and other bull****. If you're using firefox you can get addons to prevent people tracking you. Adblock and betterprivacy come to mind. Chrome also has extensive plugins though I'm not aware of them and surprisingly even Opera has add-ons as well. It's the most secure browser and it's coming along very nicely. Version 12 looks fantastic and I'm sure in a few months will make Firefox obsolete. Perfosnally I don't trust Chrome since it's Google's browser and it's designed to monitor you for ad revenue and data mining purposes. Who knows what else.
 

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Download firefox and google for something called Tor Browser Bundle. Use Tor browser and that will give you a certain degree of anonymity on the net, but it does take a while to load sites.
 

Maeisgood

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What is a good private email service to use? I don't trust anything google-related because its all used to data mining and general borg assimilation.
 
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I think virtually anything sent electronically is compromised to varying degrees.

If you're that paranoid about privacy you can always go old school and do all your important stuff in person or via mail.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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