"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Computer Privacy

Maeisgood

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What is a good technology forum to go to that specializes in protecting one's identity? I can't think of a good example of such a forum, but an example of protecting my identity on-line is using the search engine ixquick.com instead of google. Computers are not my forte but I think its an important enough area of my life to work on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alle_Gory

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1. Never give out identifiable information in a public forum. Where you live, what your house looks like, the places you visit locally, what you look like. Anything that has an address or a unique name. For example, "I shopped at Best Buy yesterday" is not easy to identify because there's so many and it's such a vast company. "I like to go to Mcgillicuddy's Bar" well that's much easier to narrow down. Even sharing a picture can be a no-no since newer cameras sometimes have GPS data built into the EXIF image tags and tell you exactly where you took the picture within a few feet. You need to know what you're giving out before you do so. EXIF data can be stripped.

2. Use separate e-mail addresses with separate and hard to remember passwords. I have several e-mail addresses for this exact reason because I don't know who to trust and who will spam me. Google and Hotmail make this easy. Hotmail has aliases which is basically another e-mail address in your e-mail address. And for the love of god please don't use the same password on every website with every account.

3. Be aware of tracking cookies and other bull****. If you're using firefox you can get addons to prevent people tracking you. Adblock and betterprivacy come to mind. Chrome also has extensive plugins though I'm not aware of them and surprisingly even Opera has add-ons as well. It's the most secure browser and it's coming along very nicely. Version 12 looks fantastic and I'm sure in a few months will make Firefox obsolete. Perfosnally I don't trust Chrome since it's Google's browser and it's designed to monitor you for ad revenue and data mining purposes. Who knows what else.
 

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Download firefox and google for something called Tor Browser Bundle. Use Tor browser and that will give you a certain degree of anonymity on the net, but it does take a while to load sites.
 

Maeisgood

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What is a good private email service to use? I don't trust anything google-related because its all used to data mining and general borg assimilation.
 
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I think virtually anything sent electronically is compromised to varying degrees.

If you're that paranoid about privacy you can always go old school and do all your important stuff in person or via mail.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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