"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Complicated
- Thread starter Kourt
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
InspirationMan
Don Juan
If everything were simple, there would be no fun in living.
With chaos comes thrill--
With repetition comes boredom--
(warning- large generalization on my part, this is JUST my opinion, please keep flaming to a minimum):
Women catch on to the idea of 'life' far sooner in life than men do and they wish to experience it in the funnest way possible. What better way to have fun than to make the world as complicated as possible so you never know what will happen next.
A predictable life is a boring life~~~
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Drama
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Anybody got a better explanation? I'd really love to hear it!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KiInCollege
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So if that girl you're chasing isn't giving you the honey or relationship - bang a h0.