"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Completely Confused

Party Boy

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Ok so I'm now confused as hell. Last night I met up with a chick from work out at a club with my mate. She was with some of her friends when we got there, but soon as we got there she started hanging off us and we left her friends behind. Things seemed to be going fine. Had some awesome kino going on, grinded her up on the dance floor for a bit and I was getting close to kissing her, when she randomly said "I'm going for a walk" and left us there.

A bit later I saw her with one of her friends she rocked up with (a guy) and I couldn't keep her with us as he kept dragging her away. Now am I reading signs wrong here or what? I'll see her in a couple of days at work again but for now I'm lost lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Party Boy

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Hmm, I didn't think about that... But she had dragged me away previously so if she wanted to go somewhere private with me I don't see why she wouldn't have just done that again. Also the friend that was dragging her away all the time was a guy, though I'm not sure if he was being a fuk wit and c0ckblocking me or if he wanted her as well.
 

Party Boy

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Yeah true, I was moving slower then normal because I do work with her and didn't want to really cause some awkward working relationship.
 
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