"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok so I'm now confused as hell. Last night I met up with a chick from work out at a club with my mate. She was with some of her friends when we got there, but soon as we got there she started hanging off us and we left her friends behind. Things seemed to be going fine. Had some awesome kino going on, grinded her up on the dance floor for a bit and I was getting close to kissing her, when she randomly said "I'm going for a walk" and left us there.

A bit later I saw her with one of her friends she rocked up with (a guy) and I couldn't keep her with us as he kept dragging her away. Now am I reading signs wrong here or what? I'll see her in a couple of days at work again but for now I'm lost lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm, I didn't think about that... But she had dragged me away previously so if she wanted to go somewhere private with me I don't see why she wouldn't have just done that again. Also the friend that was dragging her away all the time was a guy, though I'm not sure if he was being a fuk wit and c0ckblocking me or if he wanted her as well.
 
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Yeah true, I was moving slower then normal because I do work with her and didn't want to really cause some awkward working relationship.
 
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