"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Completed 60 days of NC,lost 13 lbs and got my LIFE back.

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Mauser96 said:
Good for you man. You are an inspiration.


Thanks a lot man! I am just doing what is beneficial for me. I wish I could have done that earlier but its still ok at least I am doing something which would help me reap more benefits after it has been completed.

I realized one thing that it is ok to be selfish if the other person doesn't value you. And it is ok to leave them alone if they left you alone once.

As soon as you decide to get out of my life,you are dead to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wow, very inspirational bro. Good on you. I have been going to the gym as of late and working on my hobbies that I enjoy. Did your ex ever begin to contact you again? When you ignored her did she say anything to you?
 

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Wow, very inspirational bro. Good on you. I have been going to the gym as of late and working on my hobbies that I enjoy. Did your ex ever begin to contact you again? When you ignored her did she say anything to you?

I never allowed her to say anything to me. Blocked her.
 

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I wrote to my ex last time that i will never gonna contact her again... its been 4 months. she's been fine with it ...

After one year you finally understand the real person face...
 

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Came home from working out and I saw I had two messages in my what's app. Saw it was from her.... I didn't see the message and just turned off my phone. In my mind I think it is just to wish me Merry X mas since I am single living out here in Brazil. The last time she messaged me was Dec. 13 and that is after she had messaged me "well you disappeared on me, how are you? (Obviously I disappeared after you LJBF) I had responded I was busy, how are you? and she never responded until today.......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ctorres626 said:
Came home from working out and I saw I had two messages in my what's app. Saw it was from her.... I didn't see the message and just turned off my phone. In my mind I think it is just to wish me Merry X mas since I am single living out here in Brazil. The last time she messaged me was Dec. 13 and that is after she had messaged me "well you disappeared on me, how are you? (Obviously I disappeared after you LJBF) I had responded I was busy, how are you? and she never responded until today.......

Give her the same **** back. But make sure its more painful. No Contact for life. You know you deserve better. Don't waste your time on this piece of ****.
 

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Bradd80 : Thanks a lot man! I already feel better and much more determined. I have working out really hard and now I just have around 7 more kg to lose before I enter the 10% body fat range.

I messaged you regarding this particular problem. You checked your inbox? Kindly reply back to it.
 

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Hello Guys,

Iv'e been strong and keeping NC. i improve myself and by talking to ES i could struggle and get well day by day. also reading the books and reading here gives me power. keep going :)

Joe.
 

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I hope you guys had a Merry X mas and I hope you have a Happy New year. Bought my groceries today full of good stuff and still working out strong as usual.

When I turned my phone on, I received 3 more messages one at 5 pm then again at 9 and lastly at 4 in the morning of her worrying about me, and where was I spending X mas and please message back when I can to see that I am doing okay. She even said "I am sure you don't want to hear from me but how can I not wish you a merry x mas. Even had the nerve to use this nickname she had for me... it made me cringe.....
 

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You're doing a good job ctorres. She will realise your true value in a few weeks. Stay strong with the workouts and the no contact.

That girl doesn't deserves you at your best.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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