"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Completed 60 days of NC,lost 13 lbs and got my LIFE back.

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Mauser96 said:
Good for you man. You are an inspiration.
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Thanks a lot man! I am just doing what is beneficial for me. I wish I could have done that earlier but its still ok at least I am doing something which would help me reap more benefits after it has been completed.

I realized one thing that it is ok to be selfish if the other person doesn't value you. And it is ok to leave them alone if they left you alone once.

As soon as you decide to get out of my life,you are dead to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow, very inspirational bro. Good on you. I have been going to the gym as of late and working on my hobbies that I enjoy. Did your ex ever begin to contact you again? When you ignored her did she say anything to you?
 
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Wow, very inspirational bro. Good on you. I have been going to the gym as of late and working on my hobbies that I enjoy. Did your ex ever begin to contact you again? When you ignored her did she say anything to you?
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I never allowed her to say anything to me. Blocked her.
 
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I wrote to my ex last time that i will never gonna contact her again... its been 4 months. she's been fine with it ...

After one year you finally understand the real person face...
 
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Came home from working out and I saw I had two messages in my what's app. Saw it was from her.... I didn't see the message and just turned off my phone. In my mind I think it is just to wish me Merry X mas since I am single living out here in Brazil. The last time she messaged me was Dec. 13 and that is after she had messaged me "well you disappeared on me, how are you? (Obviously I disappeared after you LJBF) I had responded I was busy, how are you? and she never responded until today.......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Came home from working out and I saw I had two messages in my what's app. Saw it was from her.... I didn't see the message and just turned off my phone. In my mind I think it is just to wish me Merry X mas since I am single living out here in Brazil. The last time she messaged me was Dec. 13 and that is after she had messaged me "well you disappeared on me, how are you? (Obviously I disappeared after you LJBF) I had responded I was busy, how are you? and she never responded until today.......
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Give her the same **** back. But make sure its more painful. No Contact for life. You know you deserve better. Don't waste your time on this piece of ****.
 
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Bradd80 : Thanks a lot man! I already feel better and much more determined. I have working out really hard and now I just have around 7 more kg to lose before I enter the 10% body fat range.

I messaged you regarding this particular problem. You checked your inbox? Kindly reply back to it.
 
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Hello Guys,

Iv'e been strong and keeping NC. i improve myself and by talking to ES i could struggle and get well day by day. also reading the books and reading here gives me power. keep going :)

Joe.
 
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I hope you guys had a Merry X mas and I hope you have a Happy New year. Bought my groceries today full of good stuff and still working out strong as usual.

When I turned my phone on, I received 3 more messages one at 5 pm then again at 9 and lastly at 4 in the morning of her worrying about me, and where was I spending X mas and please message back when I can to see that I am doing okay. She even said "I am sure you don't want to hear from me but how can I not wish you a merry x mas. Even had the nerve to use this nickname she had for me... it made me cringe.....
 
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You're doing a good job ctorres. She will realise your true value in a few weeks. Stay strong with the workouts and the no contact.

That girl doesn't deserves you at your best.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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