"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Complete guide to self improvement!!

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Wow, what a mind - blowing post!:D .

Something I like to add in the Intelectual Improvment section. Instead of reading a book, you could read the paper. Depends which you prefer.
Now there's loads of papers out there for different levels of abilities. If you are intelligent enough, you would be reading a broadsheet newspaper like the Daily Telegraph, The Times or Finanical Times (UK version). Washington Post or New York Times. (USA Version). It's nice to keep update with everything happening in the World and it gives a good impression of yourself. Yes, I read the Telegraph and sometimes the Finanical Times but not only the impression, it does your English good. You could strike up a conversation with a girl from something intresting you have read. Don't talk politcal or anything like that.

Now I would avoid newspapers that invovle Porn (big turn off), swearing or any kind of silly Celebrity gossip. No need to name them. (Not offensive if you read any those). Remember I am talking in public areas not home!.

Originally posted by Sammo
make sure they not all self destructive habits.


Sorry I can't help that!. Broken thumb and a cracked collerbone at the moment. While racing, it went a bit wrong clearing a 30ft step - up road jump on a MTB bike.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nice work////
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Then guys, be good dj's and search for them using the SEARCH function...

Haha I love being new and bossing older people around. :D

Btw, Great Post Dude! :)
 

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I posted this a while ago when the forum had a different adress so that's why you couldn't get through.

However, i just fixed all the links, have fun.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gus

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bump
 

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For improving your intellect you spelled it wrong lol:p
I was looking for this post by the way.

Good job man.
 

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this should be in the bible... im going to hang this on the mirror
 

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i was getting off track and reverting back to my old ways untill i read this. this is possibly the best wake up call ive ever had. thanks sammo

oh ya BUMP
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was going to bump it, but it was in a sticky so I resisted. I wish Sammo still posted, but reading his posts have convinced me to not worry about girls so much. Just going to try improve myself first, and let them come to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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