Competition

[612_Da_Playa]

Hey guys. I was at school today, and all summer I was like I'm gonna hook up with Takayla. So today, you know I feel confident, hold my head above horizon when I walk, I just felt good about myself. Anyway, I saw Takayla in the beginning of the school day in the gym with some of her girlfriends but she didn't see me. I didn't talk to her. At the end of the day I see her talking with some guy and they walk off with each other to the parking lot. They weren't holding hands or hands wrapped around each others back. The guy is on varsity football, he dresses nice and he's not ugly(no homo). I dress nice and look nice but he has that football advantage over me for right now. And this isn't some ugly girl, I mean top notch in the school. I'm kinda angry that I didn't talk to her earlier in the day. What do you guys suggest in this approach?

 

[08aisaac]

Talk to her.

Damn I was going to get this one chicks # today, but I see her, and I think, "I will just get it later, because I see her after school." Well I didn't see her, so that opportunity was wasted. Better sooner, then later.

Don't know what I was thinking, I guess I will get it tommorow.

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

It doesnt really matter if u get her # or not cus you go to school with her and see her everyday. Also what are you gonna do when you get her # its tuesday nothing to do, except u can cal her and waste 2 hours talkin nonesence. You can talk to her later or tomorrow or day after that.

 

[612_Da_Playa]

I mean just approach her but don't be like " So uh, is he your boyfriend?" lol

 

[MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO]

Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
I mean just approach her but don't be like " So uh, is he your boyfriend?" lol

LOL. thats funny. i can really see one of you guys on here sayin some **** like that.

 

[Roly]

" A Don Juan has no competition but himself."

I think were playing the comparison game again.Personally, I've been there and it's a complete waste of mental energy man. When I first started out in the game, I was always comparing myself to guys. Like you know - " What does he have that I don't have?" or " I wish I had this and that." I would always beat myself up over the things I didn't have instead of being grateful for the ones I do have.

Then I came to realize that this is just a game I can't win. There will ALWAYS be someone "better" than me and there will always be someone "worse". I then stop comparing myself to other people and approach the game as not as some sort of competition but as some sort of Artist gallery in which all artist are all unique, original and different.

 

[DJ4Real]

You are lacking confidence. Confidence is A HUGE key to success with any woman. Just because you saw her with this football player, doesn't mean you should start getting all down on yourself. However, when you decide to speak with her, be sure that you sound and look confident, stand up straight, and be cool about it. A football uniform doesn't mean much, it's all in the attitude, man.