"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do u deal with a guy macking on the girl u are macking on..
There is this kid who flirts with the girl im trying to bag and im getting mixed messages from this girl..
everytime im macking on her, he comes along and ****blocks and macks on her and i lose my focus, get angry, sad, or jealous and think im not as good at the other guy..
How do you deal with competition??

ITS SO HARD DEALING WITH IT!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ignore him and do you. step your game up, then again this isn't elimadate...or a mtv dating show, dunno. Maybe tease her and be like damn you are hot, every guys wants sometime wit you. Then sit up next to her, mabe get in real close and say in her ear better tell them you I"m cooler or some crap. basically try and close him out.
 
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I'm use to it.

Just ignore the other guy for the most part or ****block him back.

Whisper in her ear sh!t about the other guy etc. (This works really well)

Also remember it doesn't really matter which guy she likes more, as long as your the guy that gets with her.
 
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i try to ignore him but he's too good!

i also sneak peeks when they are flirting and always think she sees me and thinks im needy or something

also, he says everything i would say before i do it so it hurts my game more
 
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Go up to her while they're talking, grab her and whisper something funny about him in her ear.

You don't just sit on your ass and let them talk alone, you gotta fight for it. Push yourself into the conversation, fvck him up.

I just meant for the most part, ignore his comments. You still gotta make yourself part of the conversation.

If your lucky two things will happen, he'll either give up or get really angry and look retarded.

I remember when I friend would do this sh!t to me, and I got really angry and started beating him till his nose was all bloody. Yeah, don't do that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol and i bet neither of yall lames got her right? lol Isn't she kinda being a player, why waste your time, don't feed into her attention whorish ways.
 
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