"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Competition

illmatic1005

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How do u deal with a guy macking on the girl u are macking on..
There is this kid who flirts with the girl im trying to bag and im getting mixed messages from this girl..
everytime im macking on her, he comes along and ****blocks and macks on her and i lose my focus, get angry, sad, or jealous and think im not as good at the other guy..
How do you deal with competition??

ITS SO HARD DEALING WITH IT!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Someone Much cooler

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ignore him and do you. step your game up, then again this isn't elimadate...or a mtv dating show, dunno. Maybe tease her and be like damn you are hot, every guys wants sometime wit you. Then sit up next to her, mabe get in real close and say in her ear better tell them you I"m cooler or some crap. basically try and close him out.
 

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I'm use to it.

Just ignore the other guy for the most part or ****block him back.

Whisper in her ear sh!t about the other guy etc. (This works really well)

Also remember it doesn't really matter which guy she likes more, as long as your the guy that gets with her.
 

illmatic1005

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i try to ignore him but he's too good!

i also sneak peeks when they are flirting and always think she sees me and thinks im needy or something

also, he says everything i would say before i do it so it hurts my game more
 

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Go up to her while they're talking, grab her and whisper something funny about him in her ear.

You don't just sit on your ass and let them talk alone, you gotta fight for it. Push yourself into the conversation, fvck him up.

I just meant for the most part, ignore his comments. You still gotta make yourself part of the conversation.

If your lucky two things will happen, he'll either give up or get really angry and look retarded.

I remember when I friend would do this sh!t to me, and I got really angry and started beating him till his nose was all bloody. Yeah, don't do that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Someone Much cooler

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lol and i bet neither of yall lames got her right? lol Isn't she kinda being a player, why waste your time, don't feed into her attention whorish ways.
 
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