"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do u deal with a guy macking on the girl u are macking on..
There is this kid who flirts with the girl im trying to bag and im getting mixed messages from this girl..
everytime im macking on her, he comes along and ****blocks and macks on her and i lose my focus, get angry, sad, or jealous and think im not as good at the other guy..
How do you deal with competition??

ITS SO HARD DEALING WITH IT!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ignore him and do you. step your game up, then again this isn't elimadate...or a mtv dating show, dunno. Maybe tease her and be like damn you are hot, every guys wants sometime wit you. Then sit up next to her, mabe get in real close and say in her ear better tell them you I"m cooler or some crap. basically try and close him out.
 
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I'm use to it.

Just ignore the other guy for the most part or ****block him back.

Whisper in her ear sh!t about the other guy etc. (This works really well)

Also remember it doesn't really matter which guy she likes more, as long as your the guy that gets with her.
 
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i try to ignore him but he's too good!

i also sneak peeks when they are flirting and always think she sees me and thinks im needy or something

also, he says everything i would say before i do it so it hurts my game more
 
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Go up to her while they're talking, grab her and whisper something funny about him in her ear.

You don't just sit on your ass and let them talk alone, you gotta fight for it. Push yourself into the conversation, fvck him up.

I just meant for the most part, ignore his comments. You still gotta make yourself part of the conversation.

If your lucky two things will happen, he'll either give up or get really angry and look retarded.

I remember when I friend would do this sh!t to me, and I got really angry and started beating him till his nose was all bloody. Yeah, don't do that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lol and i bet neither of yall lames got her right? lol Isn't she kinda being a player, why waste your time, don't feed into her attention whorish ways.
 
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