"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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competition with the older guys for girls my age

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I was playing battle of the bands last weekend and this really hot girl HB9+ who I had met once before comes in and says "Hey" and comes over to give me a hug. It took me a second to realize who she was and I remembered her name and we sat and chatted for awhile before I had to go on stage. I was still flirting with her while I was on stage through "eye sex" and we talked some more when I finished playing. Later that night I noticed a few guys all ages 20-22 flirting with her and she was smiling and flirting back. When I walked by she barely looked up at me. When they weren't around she was back to flirting like normal. Although I didn't center myself around her, I was around talking to my friends. I walked by her once when she had her back turned and I walked up behind her and massaged her shoulders for just a second, walked off, looked back and "eye sexed" her, never stopping. Told her bye before I left and while she didn't seem cold... she seemed colder then than she did at the beggining of the night. I made some stupid moves. After all she DID invite me to sit there with her and those guys but I had friends waiting on me across the room and I would rather not sat at a crowded table unless I was sure she would be beside me for me to mack on. Pick me apart
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Later that night I noticed a few guys all ages 20-22 flirting with her and she was smiling and flirting back. When I walked by she barely looked up at me.
This should have been your clue to forget her. I promise you she played this same game with every other guy that paid her any attention. You should have ignored her a$$ after this point. Walking up behind her and massaging her shoulders? Big no, no....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by BrokenTrustDrummer
thanks for all the advice. and yes... i have been picked apart, but in a nice way ;-)
It's all good bro. We've all been there...
 

Kineti[C]harm

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WHY DO YOU CARE!?! EITHER MOVE ON OR DO HER, wtf are you thinking about.

WHO CARES!??!! Do your move or fvck off.
 
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