Companionship?

[Die Hard]

What's with this word? Seems guys on here use it more and more, lately... Mostly in this form: "Women are only good for sex and companionship".

Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm getting the impression that this is just a fashion word that guys use to seem "tough" to each other while they're really not... I mean, what else could a man want from a woman besides sex and companionship? You see, every act or event you and your woman take part in together could fit this 'companionship', yet people seem to use this word as if it only means superficial acts or events.

Yeah you ate pizza and fvcked... Yeah, you played a game of pool with her... Yeah, you two had coffee... I guess this is what you mean when you say she offered you companionship. But perhaps you leave out the part where you looked deep into her eyes and felt a little warm inside... Or the part where the two of you cuddled... Or any other part that wasn't superficial and actually made you FEEL something.

Coz, you know, we're all so tough

Could be that I'm misinterpreting because English isn't my native tongue, or I'm just mistaken altogether... But it just seems awkward to me when guys say this. I mean, if you'd say women are only good for sex, you would speak clear language. By that, you would mean that you shouldn't open up your feelings to women coz they'll cheat on you and break your heart and all that. So you would just keep it at sex and nothing more.

But when you add the word companionship, it doesn't make sense anymore. It's the "just" part that makes it sound kinda idiotic to me. Coz saying they're "just good for sex and companionship" implies they're not good for all the other things that you would want from them. Which would be a connection on a deeper level and allowing yourself to have some sort of feelings... But like I said, the word companionship doesn't exclude a connection on a deeper level, wo why choose that word?

It just doesn't add up... So it looks to me like people are just trying to act tough when they say it, as if they want to convince themselves that they don't desire that connection on a deeper level, while really they do...

Does anyone have some insight to offer?

 

[Die Hard]

Yeah, I get that's what they're trying to convey: not bonding, just passing time, short term etc. But that's not really what the word 'companionship' means. As a matter of fact, I always associate the word with notions of trust, loyalty, being able to rely on each other etc. That's what I think of when people speak of a companion...

So I just think it's weird that people use this word. Why not say something like women are just good for passing time, to be used as a plaything, a toy or some other words that clearly mean there's no bonding, no feelings, no deeper connection etc. Companionship seems like a totally unfitting word to convey that idea so assuming my understanding of the word is correct, it would appear that Playherman and anyone else using this word are either bad at speaking English or there's something else going on...

But whatever... I'm just having an episode where I really wish I could have a deeper connection with a woman right now, I guess that's why this subject is irking me :shrug:

 

[Desdinova]

I always associate the word with notions of trust, loyalty, being able to rely on each other etc. That's what I think of when people speak of a companion...

That's how I view it as well.

Not sure where you read that statement about sex and companionship. What is beyond that?

I find some women aren't good for companionship, and some aren't even good for sex. Finding someone who's good for both is the possible makings for a LTR.

 

[Die Hard]

I thought I had seen several people use the word in this context but it turns out there's only one guy who has been using the word in this context, Tenacity. Here are a few quotes from him:

I have already opted out of marriage, I believe that I will finally make the decision to opt out of creating children. And for the rest of my life, I will only seek the value from women today that's actually still there....and it's just their vagina and companionship.

There's no other value to a woman today, fellas the quality women....are dead.

As I have said before, the only VALUE with women today is sex and a companion, everything else is snake oil.

my conclusion is that the ONLY value remaining to a woman is sex and companionship....or in other words.....she's only a form of Entertainment.

Anyway, I'm DONE with 99% of the women around me at the moment. I guess it's the time of the year, but I just wish to share something more than physical attraction with a woman right now. I'm done playing the game just to get into their panties. My right hand is less of a hassle and serves me just as well, lol.

Lately, some bytch was playing games with me as we were setting up a date and it really pissed me off... Constantly trying to grab the frame, trying to give me the feeling that I might not get sex from her, trying to give me the feeling that the date might be called off at any moment etc. I know she's just an insecure moron who only feels safe if she has me by the ballz, trying to prevent me from disappointing her in any way by creating a situation where she herself is constantly in a position to disappoint me at any moment.

Jezus, talk about being emotionally immature!! Why would I even want to go on a date with a CHILD like that? Just to go through the motions, sitting at a table at a bar, having drinks, having meaningless conversation, until we can finally go home and I can stick my d!ck in a warm hole... Pfff, you can keep it, I don't need your cvnt, sex is overrated... Having a nice time with a woman and feeling some kind of connection to her is much more rewarding in my eyes.

We had already set up the date but I just texted her an hour before the meet that I was going to do something else that night. She didn't know what hit her, lol... Seriously, I just want to sit across that table from a person who can act NORMAL, without playing stupid games, without pulling up all kinds of fences and setting up minefields that I have to walk through, without acting like an emotionally immature, disgusting, NO FUN, stupid piece of TRASH.

Is that too much to ask for, lol??? Yeah, I know, there are lots of good girls out there too. As a matter of fact, I know lots of them and have them lined up for me, waiting for me to ask them out. But they're all HB7's at the most and don't excite me enough in the looks department. Like the chick I was with this Summer, who was really good for me and I could connect to her but she was just not HOT enough.

The dating game sucks and I want no part of it at the moment. I'll be honest with you guys, I feel pretty lonely, cold and empty inside these days. Makes me wish I had a nice girl who acts like a good companion... But I have no energy to sift through the hordes of WORTHLESS women just to find one that is WORTHY. It's like having to swim through a stream of diarrhea, causing you to RETCH and PUKE real hard, just to find some piece of gold. Fvck it, you can keep your piece of gold for the moment, I'm gonna focus on anything else in life that entertains me and brings me comfort. Women ain't a part of that for the time being, they DISGUST me!!

Sorry for the negativity, guys. I'll make up for it with some inspiring field report somewhere in the future...