hey guys i'm new. the names brandon. i'm 18, still in high school, and i've been working on "getting this part of my life handled" for about 2 years now.
i've spent a lot of time with this stuff inside of my head, reading articles and newsletters, e-books and dvd's. but i've only recently (within the past 2-3 months) started to actually get off my ass and try to do ****.
things i'm good at: body language, teasing about stuff, getting numbers (when i actually get off my ass and ask for them) holding back.anything to do with mindset and what you're SUPPOSED to be thinking, i've pretty much got down pact, but i just have a problem drawing that same mindset up when it comes time. i can tell you exactly what to do from outside the bubble, but when i'm in there, i have problems.
things i need work on: siezing opportunities, approaching MORE chicks, actually being indifferent and not trying to make her like me, judging body language, being funny and not just ****y,
anyways you guys seem like a pretty energetic group, and there's not a lot of studs around where i live, so i was hoping i could feed off of the knowledge you guys and hopefully help out some of you guys with my experiences.
anyways, i thought i'd submit a little report for anyone who'd like to analyze it and maybe help me out a bit:
first here's the people involved
SM- new girl, never saw the old me. into me, definately thinks i'm cute (i'm a pretty handsome guy by the way) she's puerto rican, and speaks pretty good english (just came her from puerto rico this summer) she's in my spanish class, so i tease her about showing off, talking too fast for everyone, and mock her sassy body language. not really that hot. she's like a 7, and i'm not really that interested. she may or may not have a boyfreind
R-has know me for 4 years, all of which i've had a crush on her for. she's seen me through all my phases. she started to warm up to me earlier this year, but lately has gotten cold ( i laid some pretty lame jokes on her.) sssmokin hot, at least a 9, kind of a badass chick. i tease her about being chubby (she's like 5'6 120) and trying to pick me up. has a short junior did an alright job of making her attracted to him for a little bit, but he's been slipping up lately and being a wussbag.
M-junior (the others are seniors) hasn't really known me at all up till now. i tease her and her freind, A, about matching clothes all the time. i call them frick and frack cuz they're always together in everything. i mimick and tease M's body language and stuff. she tries to act resistant sometimes, but she's always giggling around me. about an 8.5. great legs, fantastic ass, and the rest of her is alright. i don't think she really understands that she's hot.
SG-sort of a friend. she's known me for 4 years. she's had a boyfreind the whole time one guy for the first two years, another for the last two. freshman year never talked to her, just lusted over her. sophomore year i talked to her and make her laugh all the time, but no teasing. junior year i was a **** to her cuz i didn't understand that c&f means ****y AND funny. this year we're good. i do a pretty good job of teasing her since i know nothing is gonna happen. 9, perfect body, cute face, knows it, but is a real sweetheart.
ANYWAYS last night was my homecoming dance. i went with SM. we went to dinner beforehand with my buddy J and his date B. when SM and B wen to the bathroom together i teased them about being lesbians, which they played into. also teased SM about tryting to play footsie with me. i work at the restaurant so i surprised everybody with some nice free dessert. i messed with B alot too because her x-bf kept calling her thinking that she's "cheating" on him. we took some pictures outside before we left and i teased B and SM more about being lesbians because of the poses they were getting into. then when i took a picture with SM, i told her to stop using it as an excuse to grab my ass.
in the car she said her hands were cold, so i held them for a minute, and then let go. then i gave her my jacket to keep warm with and told her to be nice to it because i love that jacket (which i do)
she had some trouble getting started at the dance. it seemed like she just wanted to dance with B. that was alright cuz there was plenty of other girls to dance with. i didn't dance with R the whole night. i just didn't really get around to it, but i kinda wanted to. i did dance with SG a couple of times.
when they played "baby got back" i cut in on who she was dancing with said "my turn" put her back to me , spanked her and said "GET NASTY"... which she did. i had to have her for that dance cuz i'm an ass man and she has the greatest ass this world has ever seen.
after she finished burning a hole in my crotch with her ass grinding (she got low and even did the whole touch the floor with your hand thing) i danced a little with M for a little bit, and she surprised me, cuz she is kind of a shy girl, but she got movin. she kicked it into gear when i told her "c'mon i've been dancing with a puerto rican chick all night, your little white ass is gonna have to keep up the pace". telling chicks to "get nasty" and lemme see what they got and stuff like that really gets em moving.
another thing that gets a really good response is "bumping them" like when they're dancing sort of alone and so am i, when the snap or clap or whatever in the music, i bump her ass or hip with my hip just enough to throw her balance a tiny bit. they love this and just crack up. after this she'll usually get up on me and start grinding. and this seems kinda odd at first, but girls love it when you turn it around and start grinding your ass on them for a second, just in kind of a silly way for a second or two. it gives the idea that you're really comfortable and just want to have fun.
oh, and when a chick is grinding on you, i find it's good to put only one hand on her hip, and move back a little bit so that she has to back up into you to get contact. this sets up the whole "she's chasing me" frame right from the start.
i did end up dancing with SM a lot, and she really started to get into it, and grabbed my hands too, trying to get me to put both on her waist. like i said, lol, she REALLY started getting into it, so a few times i had to give her my thigh to grind on instead of my crotch. didn't wanna let her know that she was getting me excited. i danced with a couple of other girls, none of which i'm really interested in though. i had fun mixin it up, and figured i'd do good to show SM and anyone else that i'm not stuck on them by dancing with lotsa people.
i found that girls really like it when you do things in step with the music. spank her (but only like once during the night for each girl or else it's just weird) get into it and sing along, tell her to get lower, get nasty, challenge her and all that.
i did talk to one new girl L.C. one of my freinds brought her along as a date. i just asked her who she was with, where she was from, and what (her name is actually L.C.) stood for, and then teased her because she couldn't tell me what it meant. i saw her later at the after party
anyways SM got weird halfway through the dance. she took B's phone and just dissapeared somewhere. from that point on she was absolutely NO FUN. i don't know why she came to the after party. she didn't mingle at all, didn't respond much to anything i said, and just hung out with B in the bathroom or garage. ended up leaving with B after about a half hour.
by the way, i had some fun wit B in the car on the way to the after party. her loser ex kept calling her thinking she's going to bang some dude or whatever, so i took the phone, yelled "your girlfreind is getting banged by three dudes right now!" and stuff like that. she was holding a pepsi can between her thighs so i told him that she likes pepsi cans up insider her. she thought it was hilarious, so i stopped. she started encouraging it too much, like she wanted us to fight over her, so i didn't do it anymore.
i'm pretty much gonna cut SM because she was boring and rude. but after her impressive performance, i'm thinking M has a short future with me.
that's pretty much it from me today.
comments? questions? ideas on how to not be a weiner ever time i get around R?
thanks
