"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Communication between dates

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I'm sorry if this has been discussed before. It's my first post here, though I've lurked a while.

So, my particular problem: I've met a girl online, exchanged messages for awhile and had a first date a couple of days ago. Date went ok - about the best I expected. She loved that I came to take her on a motorcycle, date lasted almost 4 hours (mostly talk), and at the end she reminded me I promised I'll teach her to ride a bike (to which I very alpha replied "Did I? I guess I did...").

Next day I sent her (online) a couple of links I mentioned during the date and commented nothing else, and she replied after a few hours that she started watching one of them.

Now, my question is: I'll be leaving in two days abroad for a short holiday, and she knows it. Do I contact her before this? And more generally, when/how should one talk to a girl (online, phone) after a good date?

Background info: we're the same age (over 30) and she's officially looking for something serious (but I don't think she's very hung up on this). She's probably a 7 by sosuave standards - definitely not bad.
 

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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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If just say goodbye a couple of days before you leave. Tell her you had planned to take her out but make up something funny about having to leave to save the world or some shyt.
I wouldn't organise anything with her until you get back. Unless you think she might be up for a bang before you leave.
 
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