I'm sorry if this has been discussed before. It's my first post here, though I've lurked a while.
So, my particular problem: I've met a girl online, exchanged messages for awhile and had a first date a couple of days ago. Date went ok - about the best I expected. She loved that I came to take her on a motorcycle, date lasted almost 4 hours (mostly talk), and at the end she reminded me I promised I'll teach her to ride a bike (to which I very alpha replied "Did I? I guess I did...").
Next day I sent her (online) a couple of links I mentioned during the date and commented nothing else, and she replied after a few hours that she started watching one of them.
Now, my question is: I'll be leaving in two days abroad for a short holiday, and she knows it. Do I contact her before this? And more generally, when/how should one talk to a girl (online, phone) after a good date?
Background info: we're the same age (over 30) and she's officially looking for something serious (but I don't think she's very hung up on this). She's probably a 7 by sosuave standards - definitely not bad.
So, my particular problem: I've met a girl online, exchanged messages for awhile and had a first date a couple of days ago. Date went ok - about the best I expected. She loved that I came to take her on a motorcycle, date lasted almost 4 hours (mostly talk), and at the end she reminded me I promised I'll teach her to ride a bike (to which I very alpha replied "Did I? I guess I did...").
Next day I sent her (online) a couple of links I mentioned during the date and commented nothing else, and she replied after a few hours that she started watching one of them.
Now, my question is: I'll be leaving in two days abroad for a short holiday, and she knows it. Do I contact her before this? And more generally, when/how should one talk to a girl (online, phone) after a good date?
Background info: we're the same age (over 30) and she's officially looking for something serious (but I don't think she's very hung up on this). She's probably a 7 by sosuave standards - definitely not bad.
