"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Common Breakup Strategy

bigneil

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She doesn't want to spend 20 seconds explaining that she's not attracted to you anymore, so instead she will spontaneously start to act like a complete douche bag. This will continue for the next 2 months as she is hoping you will eventually catch on and dump her. If you don't, she'll become totally ruthless and will then do everything she can to cause you pain.

This is because she's a really sweet person who doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oh man this is so true it brings back bone chilling memories,,, i let the crap slide for just under 1 year, when she came back it was only for a free ride and revenge... she managed to complete her mission
 

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Can you honestly say you've never done the same to a plate?
 
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