"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Common Breakup Strategy

bigneil

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She doesn't want to spend 20 seconds explaining that she's not attracted to you anymore, so instead she will spontaneously start to act like a complete douche bag. This will continue for the next 2 months as she is hoping you will eventually catch on and dump her. If you don't, she'll become totally ruthless and will then do everything she can to cause you pain.

This is because she's a really sweet person who doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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georgie24

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oh man this is so true it brings back bone chilling memories,,, i let the crap slide for just under 1 year, when she came back it was only for a free ride and revenge... she managed to complete her mission
 

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Can you honestly say you've never done the same to a plate?
 
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