“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Committed women flirt and dsappear after

tesla8520

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Hey DJìs!!
You've had a myriad of experiences in your life with women.

But those women who are already in relationships (engaged, married), who flirt with you, who tell you" how their boyfriend doesn't do certain things they'd like to do", and so they want you to f0ck them, then you do it or not, but then they disappear... they go back to their boyfriend, and erase you from their life.
So look like she satisfied her need, then she came back to her bf or hb.

There are so many women in relationships, and so many men, who are unaware of what these women are doing.
(Those men are actually happy to get arrogant/angry when she is not behaving well, actually need to scold her sometimes)

What kind of women are those.
I also had the opportunity to met 3 or 4, who did this thing with me, only had sex with 1.
 

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Pretty normal female behavior. They all look for validation in many ways. If they aren't getting enough at home then they look for other sources. They will use work colleagues, social media attention, flirting with others, etc.
 

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@The Duke @SmoothHendrixPS2
If this is considered "normal" behavior, are you telling that if this were to happen in your relationship you would have considered it normal, and therefore not disrespectful?

Also, if we are considering all women having this behaviour (so any healthy woman would have this behaviour) this actually mean you can take any woman out there, regardless her current situation, just by playing on the right buttons.
It all depends on what kind of man you're
 
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If it was to happen in my relationship I would consider it disrespectful and address it. If this stuff is going to happen, its going to occur when you aren't around.
 

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2 options:

Embrace side dude energy

Flip the script and cheat on them
 
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If it was to happen in my relationship I would consider it disrespectful and address it. If this stuff is going to happen, its going to occur when you aren't around.
Yes, and you don't want to "think" about that at all "when you're not with her".
I think at that point, you may ended that relationship.. or, what would you have actually done??
You wouldn't unless it happens in front of you.
Hmm yes and no.
That can also happen and she would let you know by changing her behaviour.. but yes it's hard.

So what would you do if she does something in your presence?
Would you wait for being at home to address her about that?
 

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This is normal. Happens all the time. Most sane women like to flirt for no other reason than they like to do it. You as a man have to be able determine when it's serious of just nothing. With experience and practice it's really not that hard to tell the difference.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You as a man have to be able determine when it's serious of just nothing
That is really impossible.
Not only do most men not see many opportunities, but they simply do not have the qualities that allow them to understand that

Its called normal female behavior. Welcome to life.
I still don't think so...
Not all women might do that, if they're in a committed relationship they actually have the power to "stop" or "prevent" themselves to do that
 

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That is really impossible.
Not only do most men not see many opportunities, but they simply do not have the qualities that allow them to understand that


I still don't think so...
Not all women might do that, if they're in a committed relationship they actually have the power to "stop" or "prevent" themselves to do that
Then perhaps the bigger issue is them?
 

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I find this post interesting.
From my experience, usually, committed women, who temporarily distance themselves from their partners to flirt with me, and then have s3x with me, usually disappear after satisfying this need.
I've always wondered this too...

In fact, it seems like in that moment, women really want to have sex with you; they'd want you for life, but they would never leave their husband/partner. They would never leave him for anything in the world!

And yet they've shown him that by flirting and then having s3x with you, they don't respect him. And yet, their man is like the air they breathe.

I really think many people here have the experience to weigh in on this.
 
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