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Master Don Juan
Dude, stop promoting your friggin thread everywhere, because you'll find that in some places, like this thread, it doesn't make any sense.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Uh, I use Axe from time to time cause I have that canister readily available to spray on me when I need to go somewhere nice soon and I haven't bathed for awhile. It doesn't give me "false confidence" Do you even know what the **** you're talking about?Originally posted by Phat
See when a guy buys AXE or TAG thinking they will get girls by spraying it on them is wrong. What there doing is giving them selfs fake confidence lol. You notice how the smell of AXE lasts like 5 minutes. If it was really supose to make you smell good how come the smell doesnt last? Don't buy that garbage. Deoderant is all you need. And then your choice of your favorite cologne.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Apologies in advance for this long post, but...Warlord said:Uh, I use Axe from time to time cause I have that canister readily available to spray on me when I need to go somewhere nice soon and I haven't bathed for awhile. It doesn't give me "false confidence" Do you even know what the **** you're talking about?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AXE = stuff you spray on your body to try and make yourself smell better, in hopes of increasing your chances with women.DJDamage said:Most men who buy this product did not buy it because they smell this prodcut on another guy's body and thought it was really good but rather bought it because they saw a commercial of an AFC that is getting some and that triggered something inside them. Sex always sells.
DjDamage
ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!DJDamage said:http://www.metacafe.com/watch/240105/inside/
Not only are the males all chasing "ONE GIRL" and fighting over "ONE GIRL" but in order to get her attention they are doing it by trying to give her a present! (and comitting crime in the process) and the woman of coarse is the intelligent and oblivious one.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJDamage said:http://www.metacafe.com/watch/240105/inside/
Not only are the males all chasing "ONE GIRL" and fighting over "ONE GIRL" but in order to get her attention they are doing it by trying to give her a present! (and comitting crime in the process) and the woman of coarse is the intelligent and oblivious one.