You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You are a utility poo king. You spend your beta bucks to tip bartenders $$$ in order to try to sleep with them in your own words or else they aren't "DTF". You're the least person to give advice.Poon King said:Women are not attracted to "comments" they are attracted to utility.
When a man shows sexual interest.. this signals that he can be of use to her. Her next goal is to figure out what he has to offer and if she wants it or not.
You're an idiot.Crossbow said:You are a utility poo king. You spend your beta bucks to tip bartenders $$$ in order to try to sleep with them in your own words or else they aren't "DTF". You're the least person to give advice.
Truth. For you to have a chance with women and have them attracted to you, you must on a subconscious level communicate that you want to fvck her.... If you DON'T do this then her primative lizard brain does not know what to do with you.Poon King said:Women are not attracted to "comments" they are attracted to utility.
When a man shows sexual interest.. this signals that he can be of use to her. Her next goal is to figure out what he has to offer and if she wants it or not.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yet you project your insecurities and bad qualities on others assuming everything like a clown.Poon King said:You're an idiot.
All men who get laid a lot know that every situation is different and you just have to make judgement calls based on what YOU want to get out of a situation.
MAYBE I don't want to just limit myself to women who are DTF from the start. MAYBE I might occasionally come across something exotic/different that I want to smash and beta buck game is the fastest/easiest way.
Using beta bucks game to get laid is different from using beta bucks game to find love, commitment and validation like most desperate chumps do. VERY DIFFERENT. But like I said.. only men who actually sleep with lots of women get it. :crackup:
Exactly.RangerMIke said:Truth. For you to have a chance with women and have them attracted to you, you must on a subconscious level communicate that you want to fvck her.... If you DON'T do this then her primative lizard brain does not know what to do with you.
Women intuitively know that sex is how they control men... if she is presented with a man that is not interested in sleeping with her then she knows that her chance of manipulating him is zero.... She will not waste her time with a man that she does not believe she can control.
Show not enough interest her lizard brain categorizes you as a chick and you get FZed. Show TOO much interest too soon you communicate that she can control you without fvcking you... And you get FZed.
You have to only show enough interest to get her to invest time in you... then you have value to her and she is willing to work harder for your attention... which includes sex.
Still MGTOW railing against human nature, and people moving ahead because you and others like you don't have those desirable qualities that quality women would choose you for.Poon King said:Exactly.
Just like men primarily worry about their chances of f*cking a woman they are attracted to... women primarily worry about their chances of manipulating and controling a man who has resources she wants (whatever those resources might be... money, status, fame, good genes for kids, father qualities, protection, etc.)
Nah it's NEVER about what a woman can do for a man. :crackup:Poon King said:For men.. its all about seeking the BEST sexual pleasure. For women its all about WHAT a man can do for her. The more he can do for her.. the more interested in him she will be (provided she believes she can exploit him for her own benefit.. preferably long-term). Simple as that.
Its pretty obvious to any man who pulls his head out of his ass long enough to see how things TRULY are.