"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
******* comments that attract women ??
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a man shows sexual interest.. this signals that he can be of use to her. Her next goal is to figure out what he has to offer and if she wants it or not.
You're an idiot.Crossbow said:
All men who get laid a lot know that every situation is different and you just have to make judgement calls based on what YOU want to get out of a situation.
MAYBE I don't want to just limit myself to women who are DTF from the start. MAYBE I might occasionally come across something exotic/different that I want to smash and beta buck game is the fastest/easiest way.
Using beta bucks game to get laid is different from using beta bucks game to find love, commitment and validation like most desperate chumps do. VERY DIFFERENT. But like I said.. only men who actually sleep with lots of women get it. :crackup:
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Truth. For you to have a chance with women and have them attracted to you, you must on a subconscious level communicate that you want to fvck her.... If you DON'T do this then her primative lizard brain does not know what to do with you.Poon King said:
Women intuitively know that sex is how they control men... if she is presented with a man that is not interested in sleeping with her then she knows that her chance of manipulating him is zero.... She will not waste her time with a man that she does not believe she can control.
Show not enough interest her lizard brain categorizes you as a chick and you get FZed. Show TOO much interest too soon you communicate that she can control you without fvcking you... And you get FZed.
You have to only show enough interest to get her to invest time in you... then you have value to her and she is willing to work harder for your attention... which includes sex.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yet you project your insecurities and bad qualities on others assuming everything like a clown.Poon King said:
You beta buck in an attempt to get laid admitting you aren't an alpha from your own "Alpha fvcks,beta bucks" nonsense.
If you look good and chicks like you you don't have to beta buck buying drinks for the same women you call entitled needing to buy drinks for. Females will go with you regardless. Yet you aren't aware of that with your black and white MGTOW thinking. Because MGTOW's sit online fantasizing and use that as a way to release their sexual and internal anger frustrations creating a character to "impress" people on the net. Embarrassing.
Exactly.RangerMIke said:
Just like men primarily worry about their chances of f*cking a woman they are attracted to... women primarily worry about their chances of manipulating and controling a man who has resources she wants (whatever those resources might be... money, status, fame, good genes for kids, father qualities, protection, etc.)
For men.. its all about seeking the BEST sexual pleasure. For women its all about WHAT a man can do for her. The more he can do for her.. the more interested in him she will be (provided she believes she can exploit him for her own benefit.. preferably long-term). Simple as that.
Its pretty obvious to any man who pulls his head out of his ass long enough to see how things TRULY are.
Still MGTOW railing against human nature, and people moving ahead because you and others like you don't have those desirable qualities that quality women would choose you for.Poon King said:
Nah it's NEVER about what a woman can do for a man. :crackup:Poon King said:
Yes we all should put everyone and everything that offers us nothing on a pedestal and disregard anything that offers us good qualities. Poon King the business man would promote and hire people who do nothing for him and sell useless products because after all people might need quality things that are useful and Poon King would set the anti-useful example.
Your keyboard character isn't fooling anyone. It's only "believed" by the same self-centered paranoid MGTOW's who can't even do what they're claiming to do for themselves.