"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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commented "humble" by a co-worker, good or bad?

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im cool with everyone in my workplace...

Anyways i was about to head out to lunch today with my friend at work, until my co-worker asks if i could get her a bottle of water. since the store was downstairs, i say sure and gives me a $1.

The telemarketer next to her said "you're so humble"

I think this was the first time anyone has ever called me humble.
What should i make of this? did it mean i was some kind of "nice guy"?

maybe if i had less of a friendly attitude in the office, i could avoid someone asking for a favor in the future...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i had a guy tell me at work the ladies at the front counter said

" he is a light touch "

i am not old so i had to ask him ( he is in his 40's ) wtf that means

he said it means you are a push over

this is a few years ago now


BUT I GAVE THAT LADY SO MUCH $HIT FROM THAT DAY FORWARD


be nice to women at work and they think you are weak

shows they cant shake their genetic makeup and the DJ rules still aplly

which means if they can't shake their programming in order to be a professional in the workplace and think like a man

THEY BELONG BACK IN THE KITCHEN RAISING THE KIDS

the way it is supposed to be :)


to all the captain save a h0s

GET THAT UP YA !


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

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“B1tch is just another word for a confident woman who always wants to have her way.

A$$hole is just another word for a confident man who won't take sh!t from a b1tch. "
 
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Lost in Translation, if i can interpret what you're saying, it kind of makes sense.

I guess i shouldve ignored her and went on my merry way to lunch. well there shouldnt be a next time for this crap!
 
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Originally posted by ScrewIt
im cool with everyone in my workplace...

Anyways i was about to head out to lunch today with my friend at work, until my co-worker asks if i could get her a bottle of water. since the store was downstairs, i say sure and gives me a $1.

The telemarketer next to her said "you're so humble"

I think this was the first time anyone has ever called me humble.
What should i make of this? did it mean i was some kind of "nice guy"?

maybe if i had less of a friendly attitude in the office, i could avoid someone asking for a favor in the future...
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If you wanted her to pay you back, just ask "Can you pay me back (insert next day you both work here)?" before saying yes next time.
 
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If you did it out of the kindness of your heart and if it was conveniant to you, then its fine. If you did it to please her then your homo.

Also she damn well better have shown gratitude towards you. If she didnt i hope you responded accordingly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Humble is usually a good thing. It means you have the potential to be arrogant, but you aren't.
 
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