command her to svck while on her knees

pyros

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So I've fvcked this 21 years slvt around 7 times. Each time she's svcked my dic-k it's been because I've told her to do it not because she initiated it which is a bit disapointing.

Anyway, we were texting the other day and she told me that she's open to do almost everything and that she likes to svck d-ick but in the begining she doesn't do it unless the guy tells her to do it because it is a bit embarrasing to admit that she likes to do it. Ok...

So a couple of days ago we were having sex etc and I just put my d-ick in her mouth for a bit but then I grabbed the pillow and threw it on the floor and I told her:
me: so just get on your knees
her: what? oh, but...it would be uncomfortable, why dont you just lay on the bed? it is easier that way
me: ok but let's do it my way first
her: but that way it hurts my neck
me: alright fine... (and I just lied on the bed and she svcked my c-ock).

The thing is that I WANTED HER ON HER KNEES and me standing not laying on the bed, but because she refused twice...I gave up cause it seemed like I would have had to "force" her to do it my way.

Should I have gotten serious and command her to do it anyway?
Any tips or suggestions to get her to do as I say?

Thanks.
 

Bible_Belt

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Most women like to be "forced" to do what you want. I would have just bent her over and skipped the bj. If she doesn't do it your way, then she doesn't get to do it.
 

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Be very careful, there is a fine line between being dominant and being pushy.

I would just let her s*ck my ****, why insist on her being on her knees, its like you're trying to hard to put her down.
 

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Just tell her it feels so much better when she sucks it on her knees. If she's really into you, she'll do it because she wants to pleasure you.

Most people will do anything to pleasure their partner even if it's slightly uncomfortable for them.
 

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Most women like to be "forced" to do what you want
She basically gave you objections. You're supposed to overcome those objections. That's what she wanted. As Bible noted, women love to "feel" like they are being "forced" to do something. It's a fine line, and she was probably hoping that you would GENTLY push past her objections, so she could have the FANTASY of being forced to her knees to blow you.

Next time, try to gently GUIDE her rather than talking so much. If/When she starts to object, rub her lips and put your finger in her mouth or something.
 
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