"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Coming to terms

HeyPachuco!

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Sup, guys.

New fish here (w/ HUGE gilles) just short and simple. . .

What do I have to come to terms with about women IN GENERAL. Would like simple lists or sentences/ percentages.

All the deceiving horsesh!t a former AFC couldn't see? TELL ME, ENLIGHTEN ME!!

What there DESIRE is. What they're INTRIGUED by. What WORKS for them.

Nice one! :whistle:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Igetit!

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I believe the single most important thing that you should understand about women is that they are emotional.

Don't be deceived by how simple that statement seems.

And I don't mean that they cry easily either.

Check out this reply.

It should give you a overall view of what I mean.
 
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