"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Coming to terms

HeyPachuco!

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Sup, guys.

New fish here (w/ HUGE gilles) just short and simple. . .

What do I have to come to terms with about women IN GENERAL. Would like simple lists or sentences/ percentages.

All the deceiving horsesh!t a former AFC couldn't see? TELL ME, ENLIGHTEN ME!!

What there DESIRE is. What they're INTRIGUED by. What WORKS for them.

Nice one! :whistle:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Igetit!

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I believe the single most important thing that you should understand about women is that they are emotional.

Don't be deceived by how simple that statement seems.

And I don't mean that they cry easily either.

Check out this reply.

It should give you a overall view of what I mean.
 
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