"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Coming back after a week of total isolation/sickness

sharpshooter

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Yeah I currently have pneumonia..which i've had since Sunday. So I will be out of macking action until atleast next Sunday. Right now my confidnece is still high as hell (even though I feel and look like **** due to the sickness/medication). One thing about being in the house 24/7 is that you start to daydream/fantasize about girls. I hate that, that's the old me. I don't want that creeping back into my mind. The part that sucks is that I was on such a roll last week. Felt so powerful/alive...and now i'm a damn vegetable.

I'm only 3 days in...so hopefully my confidence will hang in there (being alone and indoors for an entire week will have it's effect on you)

I know one thing for sure though, I wanna start off right where I left off. Alive, and on a roll. Anyone with a similar type of experience?

any tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tails

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i like being home. it's fun. besides, i go to school every fricken day.
 

sharpshooter

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ah, you're lucky. I hate being home! This is totally weird for me, being in like this for a week. That's why I don't konw how i'm gonna be at the outcome of this :confused:

well it's not just about being home, it's about being sick like a dog and the mental/physical toll it takes on you
 

blienk

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Dude, consider yourself lucky...I have mono and I'll be contagious for the next MONTH.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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