"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.myspace.com/comic_relief01

This is pictures of me from this year. It has pictures of me, my girlfriend, and a couple of my friends.

Take a look and give me your information.

comment on pictures as well.

Constructive criticism is welcomed

comic_relief

PS: Eventually I will delete the myspace so it is up for a limited time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what exactly do you want feedback on?
 

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ChrizZ said:
what exactly do you want feedback on?
what you think about in general of me. Looks and fashion. Improvements.

Plus, I did this because people asked me through PM to release a few pictures.

comic_relief
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken785 said:
i see you like em' nice and plump...
Ken785 said:
... and man-ish
Why do you? If you would like her after I am done with her, I'll give her your screen name. :rolleyes: :p

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comic_relief said:
what you think about in general of me. Looks and fashion. Improvements.

Plus, I did this because people asked me through PM to release a few pictures.

comic_relief
Okay, you asked for it.

Don't take the following personal. It's just what I personally think. I don't know what you were like before, but...

Your style looks boring and nerdy.

You should start working out and get a tan.

I personally think you look too nice.

Your gf... well, you say you are happy with her so I won't comment on her because I don't wanna be mean.

sry bro, but that is just my personal opinion...
 

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comic_relief said:
Why do you? If you would like her after I am done with her, I'll give her your screen name. :rolleyes: :p

comic_relief
i will pass, reason being is that i have self-respect...i also fear of being eatin alive by what looks like a cake-loving transvestite.
 
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These guys are just nitpicking. I don't think you look too nice. While I don't thnk your girl is a hottie, she's not that bad, better than average. You could change your hair style or clothing style some, but I have no specific advice on what would look best for you.
 

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I dunno what everyone's bashing on you for.

You've got friends who you look like you're having a blast with, you've got a girlfriend that looks as into you as you are into her, and you seem like a genuine dude.

Too many dudes try to be fake, and are just unpleasant to be around. I don't sense any sort of narcissism in your pictures. I think that's awesome.

However, on your style... I don't really like it all that much.

http://a301.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/48/l_a9a1bb9c0ed64db14d68a7d1cfaae254.jpg

Your T-Shirt is too big in that picture. Try some slimmer fitting clothing. And that color doesn't suit your skin tone. Get a tan and bulk a bit more, but don't lose those abs man!! I should take my own advice because I'm a scrawny ass. Hard to hit the gym often when you're a full time student and working full time. (One of the reasons I don't have time for a girlfriend now)

Spray-on tans suck and look absolutely fake if they're not done by a professional! Tanning should usually cost you around $3 per tan. You are put in a private room with the tanning bed, so nobody sees you undress. Totally private.

http://a451.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/50/l_1928fb4f65483817ee31eae29dd1ecca.jpg

Lose those shorts man... They're not vintage... They're just... Ughh.. Just get rid of them. Your T-Shirt sleeves are too long and loose and don't go with those shorts. It looks more like a T-Shirt you'd wear for soccer. Like I said, go for some slimmer fitting clothing since you do have the body. Show it off. Need I say anything about those slippers? Lose em! Hehe

Get a pair of nice jeans. You're thin man... Use it to your advantage. Slim-fit boot cut/straight cut jeans are awesome. If you don't feel like dishing out $300 for a pair of designers, then just settle for some AnF. Slim is the key to your look right now. You'd look ridiculous with loose clothing. It's best to ask the opinion of the girls that work at the clothing stores, since they know a lot of the clothing there really well since they're around it all the time. They know what will look best over time.

Btw, I think your hair would look way ****ing better in a faux hawk. I'm not even kidding. Do a #3 on the sides, and tell your hair stylist to blend it with the top and to style the top as a bed-head look and you can style it as a faux hawk later when it starts to grow out.

http://www.niata.net/cropshop/faux_hawk/fauxhawk1.html

Enough of that.. Hehe, sorry if it sounds like I'm criticizing you. I'm not! :)

Take it easy man!
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ketostix said:
These guys are just nitpicking. I don't think you look too nice. While I don't thnk your girl is a hottie, she's not that bad, better than average. You could change your hair style or clothing style some, but I have no specific advice on what would look best for you.
Nitpicking my a$s...that thing is half man half woman, ALL BEAST!!
 

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Ken785 said:
Nitpicking my a$s...that thing is half man half woman, ALL BEAST!!
Lol... I did think that she was a guy at first, and since CR is always trying to be so funny...

But now after looking at ALL of the pics, she really IS a girl, and his girlfriend!

CR, you look like a fun guy.
 

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Wow you look almost exactly like one of my favorite actors that being Gary Oldman.
 

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You said in another post that she is an 8.5. I hope this is a joke. If not some of you need to seriously understand how bad you have it.

Peace
 
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come on guys. I have high standards and I have to admit she is actually pretty good looking. I'd give her like 7.5 or 8 on the looks scale. Most guys on here couldn't even get a gf like that. Congrats Comic!

j/k, creatures like her would have been burned alive and fed to the pigs a couple hundred years ago...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can't believe the b!tchy girls on this site.
 

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ChrizZ said:
come on guys. I have high standards and I have to admit she is actually pretty good looking. I'd give her like 7.5 or 8 on the looks scale. Most guys on here couldn't even get a gf like that. Congrats Comic!

j/k, creatures like her would have been burned alive and fed to the pigs a couple hundred years ago...
I think I will retire after that one. That is the single funniest s*** ever. I was feeling sorry for you. Then I got it :p . Brilliant. You can hate me if you want, but that post is golden. You should run this board.

Peace
 

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A mans worth isn't measured in how hot his girlfriends are.

Whilst I don't find the girl particularly attractive, isn't the main reason we're here to become happy within ourselves? Comic looks a very happy guy from where I'm sitting, and certainly more happy than myself at the moment, so I'll give him credit.

ChapStick had it bang on. You need to work out, and get a tan IMHO
 

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WesCottII said:
A mans worth isn't measured in how hot his girlfriends are.

Whilst I don't find the girl particularly attractive, isn't the main reason we're here to become happy within ourselves? Comic looks a very happy guy from where I'm sitting, and certainly more happy than myself at the moment, so I'll give him credit.

ChapStick had it bang on. You need to work out, and get a tan IMHO
Exactly. Hes enjoying his life more than most people who post here.

I love threads like these though. Reinforce to myself how sexy I am :cool:
 

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Hey comic, you look and seem like a nice guy. Friendly, outgoing......nice. Kinda nerdy in how you dress, but nice. I think you could realllllllly improve your look if you:

worked out-gained at least 30 pounds
grew your hair out-a fauxhawk would be cool
improved your clothing/dress

Now, don't take this as mean ok? I mean you put the pics up so you obviously want to be judged by them. Your gf. Ummmm. I'm sure she is nice and giving to you. Would have to be right? But.....wow, she just is not good looking dude. Maybe a 3. At best. You are definitely better looking then her, and with the right improvements, could be wayy better looking. On the other hand, she really does look like a guy dressed up as a woman. Weird. That being said, you obviously both really care for each other by how you look at each other, and with as much as you have pics of her on your my space, you are obviously proud to be with her, and that means something.

But if you were putting up her pics because you wanted validation here, its not gonna happen.

Here's a pic of my gf. I think she's great, but I would still only give her an 8 or so being realistic, so compare that to the girl you think is an 8.........

Girl in the green dress.

http://img135.imageshack.us/img135/6734/pamtj8.jpg
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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