"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Colorado "Joker" and Adult Friend Finder "opportunist"?

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I read an article in the paper today I found pretty typical of women in and example of the Colorado mass murderer "Joker". Apparently the guy had a profile on Adult Friend Finder and the paper goes on to state how "three women" blew him off. Now I'm not defending the guy in any way nor would be surprised he was blown off but what I find 'interesting' is that reporters contacted one of the 24 year old women he contacted who claims she 'blew him off' yet added him as a friend "two weeks ago".

The thing I noticed about that statement she made is pretty down right pathetic. She claims to have 'blown him off' which I believe is true but yet 'added him as a friend'?? I'm thinking she only 'added' him if she really did or is just saying that now because he's infamous and she can get her 15 minutes of fame off the tragedy.

(Not that the woman is trying to get it off the tragedy but just off being contacted by him period.)

Funny how she blew him off yet... "Added him as a friend" to juicy up the story for her benefit.

I don't know if any of you have heard or read about the chick. I don't think they're showing her but said she was on Adult Friend Finder. Now "famous" for being a wh0re who this nutcase contacted and she blew him off....yet 'friended' him at the same time. Typical women trying to capitalize somehow any way shape or form for their gain.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not one woman is going to say anything other than she "blew him off." Nobody wants to be associated with a recent mass killer. (Except those crazy chicks to write to them in prison.)
 

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Zarky said:
Not one woman is going to say anything other than she "blew him off." Nobody wants to be associated with a recent mass killer. (Except those crazy chicks to write to them in prison.)

I'm not doubting she blew him off. Dude looked like a psycho in the picture they showed of him on Adult Friend Finder.

What I'm talking about is her claiming to have 'friended' him two weeks ago. I call B.S and she's just trying capitalize in a way off of being the woman whom he contacted. Who the hell "friends" someone they wanted nothing to do with on dating sites? It's like her AWing 15 minutes of 'fame' with the infamous.
 

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oh, I see what you're saying. Welp, in that case, she would be one of those crazy b*tches. Not sure what kind of woman really wants to draw the world's attention to her casual-sex internet dating profile... :eek:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damn, just remembered I have a pic of me holding my assault rifle on POF. Should I take it down, or should I keep my balls and leave it up. I think I'll stick to my guns.
 
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