"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Colorado "Joker" and Adult Friend Finder "opportunist"?

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I read an article in the paper today I found pretty typical of women in and example of the Colorado mass murderer "Joker". Apparently the guy had a profile on Adult Friend Finder and the paper goes on to state how "three women" blew him off. Now I'm not defending the guy in any way nor would be surprised he was blown off but what I find 'interesting' is that reporters contacted one of the 24 year old women he contacted who claims she 'blew him off' yet added him as a friend "two weeks ago".

The thing I noticed about that statement she made is pretty down right pathetic. She claims to have 'blown him off' which I believe is true but yet 'added him as a friend'?? I'm thinking she only 'added' him if she really did or is just saying that now because he's infamous and she can get her 15 minutes of fame off the tragedy.

(Not that the woman is trying to get it off the tragedy but just off being contacted by him period.)

Funny how she blew him off yet... "Added him as a friend" to juicy up the story for her benefit.

I don't know if any of you have heard or read about the chick. I don't think they're showing her but said she was on Adult Friend Finder. Now "famous" for being a wh0re who this nutcase contacted and she blew him off....yet 'friended' him at the same time. Typical women trying to capitalize somehow any way shape or form for their gain.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not one woman is going to say anything other than she "blew him off." Nobody wants to be associated with a recent mass killer. (Except those crazy chicks to write to them in prison.)
 
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Zarky said:
Not one woman is going to say anything other than she "blew him off." Nobody wants to be associated with a recent mass killer. (Except those crazy chicks to write to them in prison.)
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I'm not doubting she blew him off. Dude looked like a psycho in the picture they showed of him on Adult Friend Finder.

What I'm talking about is her claiming to have 'friended' him two weeks ago. I call B.S and she's just trying capitalize in a way off of being the woman whom he contacted. Who the hell "friends" someone they wanted nothing to do with on dating sites? It's like her AWing 15 minutes of 'fame' with the infamous.
 
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oh, I see what you're saying. Welp, in that case, she would be one of those crazy b*tches. Not sure what kind of woman really wants to draw the world's attention to her casual-sex internet dating profile... :eek:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damn, just remembered I have a pic of me holding my assault rifle on POF. Should I take it down, or should I keep my balls and leave it up. I think I'll stick to my guns.
 
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