Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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color contacts?

killbill

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Ive been thinking about getting colored contacts. I think they would be pretty cool.

My eye color is brown Btw.

To me I feel like I need to make a little change lol. What do you guys think? also anyone here have colored contacts?

Who knows maybe ill attract more chick?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HandyAndy

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I think colored contacts make you a bit fake. Whats wrong with brown eyes? Ppl think they are ugly just becuase they are the most common...i have non colored contacts, i dont believe in being fake. But its your choice
 

penkitten

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im gonna chime in here.
i have brown eyes.
i wore glasses in school.
i felt like a nerd.
so i wanted contacts, and not just regular ones, but the color kind.
then i met a new girl in school who had them.
her brown eyes turned a very weird color when she wore her colored contacts that were blue, her eyes looked messed up.
she also had a green pair, that were a little less obvious but still looked a little odd.

i ended up getting regular contacts and they were ok.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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color contacts are a dead trend. don't do it.

i went to my homecoming a while back with my oneitis that made me find this site.

i never wore my blue contacts and i put them in that night for homecoming... i have brown eyes and she does too. she asked me why i was wearing them.

in other words she didn't want to say she didn't like them.
 

penkitten

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it really depends on what you want.
do you want colored contacts? do you also want to purchase a pair of soft contacts?
do you want the daily wear contacts?
 

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Kev07 said:
I wondor if purple contacts and brown eyes would make some weird color =0

I bet that would look cool. it might get you some p*ssy.:rockon:
 

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I have brown eyes and have two sets of contacts. Clear ones and green. The only time I had any trouble was when I was out with friends one night. The cop who pulled us over was being a hardass and made me take out one contact to prove I had brown eyes like my Driver's license said.

I always got good response with mine!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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