"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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color contacts?

killbill

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Ive been thinking about getting colored contacts. I think they would be pretty cool.

My eye color is brown Btw.

To me I feel like I need to make a little change lol. What do you guys think? also anyone here have colored contacts?

Who knows maybe ill attract more chick?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HandyAndy

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I think colored contacts make you a bit fake. Whats wrong with brown eyes? Ppl think they are ugly just becuase they are the most common...i have non colored contacts, i dont believe in being fake. But its your choice
 

penkitten

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im gonna chime in here.
i have brown eyes.
i wore glasses in school.
i felt like a nerd.
so i wanted contacts, and not just regular ones, but the color kind.
then i met a new girl in school who had them.
her brown eyes turned a very weird color when she wore her colored contacts that were blue, her eyes looked messed up.
she also had a green pair, that were a little less obvious but still looked a little odd.

i ended up getting regular contacts and they were ok.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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color contacts are a dead trend. don't do it.

i went to my homecoming a while back with my oneitis that made me find this site.

i never wore my blue contacts and i put them in that night for homecoming... i have brown eyes and she does too. she asked me why i was wearing them.

in other words she didn't want to say she didn't like them.
 

penkitten

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it really depends on what you want.
do you want colored contacts? do you also want to purchase a pair of soft contacts?
do you want the daily wear contacts?
 

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Kev07 said:
I wondor if purple contacts and brown eyes would make some weird color =0

I bet that would look cool. it might get you some p*ssy.:rockon:
 

WaterTiger

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I have brown eyes and have two sets of contacts. Clear ones and green. The only time I had any trouble was when I was out with friends one night. The cop who pulled us over was being a hardass and made me take out one contact to prove I had brown eyes like my Driver's license said.

I always got good response with mine!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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